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Exclamation Been Putting myself Down - August 6th 2016, 03:00 AM

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My Depressed Friend Has Been making me feel worse by Showing me what former friend is saying about me he's saying I'm Stupid I'm dead to him and Doesn't give a crap he's sending me these because he's Trying to get me to move on by Showing me not to stay with him it's making me sad I put myself down he says I'm stupid I think I am he says I don't have a life that I'm desperate for a friend I believe it and when I'm angry I punched myself Music is My only escape sometimes it either Makes me feel better or let's the Emotions all out
   
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Re: Been Putting myself Down - August 7th 2016, 08:22 PM

I'm sorry that your friend has been making you feel worse these past few days. It's not very caring or nice what he has been doing, and I think it is very important for you to talk to him about how his actions have been affecting you. You said that he's doing it so you'll see that you shouldn't be friends with this other person, is that correct?

If so, you need be aware that it is always your decision to not be friends with someone or cease contact with them. It is always important to also make sure that everything is correct in situations such as these, because hearing things from a second person instead of the individual themselves can have risks such as things being misunderstood or not true. Your friend might think that this person isn't good for you, and mean well, but it's causing you a lot of pain and that's not okay and it needs to be addressed.

Music can be an amazing way of helping a person through a tough time, and I really encourage you to keep pursuing it and listening to the type of music that makes you feel better - especially when you feel like hurting yourself like punching yourself. It doesn't do you any good to hurt yourself when you feel bad, so trying alternatives like listening to music can help a lot.

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Re: Been Putting myself Down - August 10th 2016, 04:38 AM

I hope you do stop punching yourself. That is fucking painful.

I know, it isn't easy to see, but I know you will figure it out in time. Your friend is being mean, and you should drop him and find new friends. Man, good luck, you know what to do.
   
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Re: Been Putting myself Down - August 14th 2016, 05:34 PM

I think that you need a better friend. When a friend treats you this badly, he's either manipulating you to get more out of you when you deserve better than him, and you truly deserve better than him.If he makes you feel this bad, then dump him. I do think that true friends won't hurt you or make you feel bad in any way, and its definitely true for you.. There's plenty of ways for you to get to know new people.. and you're so young. You deserve much better than to feel how you're currently feeling now.

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