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Accusing me. - August 22nd 2016, 03:33 PM

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I am feeling so suicidal right now. My family are accusing me of stuff I would never do. First off they are accusing me of hitting my own daughter which would never happen, now they are accusing me of starving her, yet it's me who starves so she can eat. It's getting beyond a joke, just because their family have all let their children down doesn't mean I am going to do it. They are just waiting for me to fail. I just feel so fed up right now, I always try my best for my daughter and now that I have a boyfriend they think I am going to put him first, which I wouldn't. Feel so stressed right now.
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Re: Accusing me. - August 23rd 2016, 12:14 AM

Hi Michaela,

I sort of understand where you're coming from when it comes to being blamed for stuff you would never do. I don't have a child so I don't understand that part. However, I believe that you are an incredible mother. I couldn't see you hurting or starving your own daughter. Have you tried explaining to them that you're not doing those things? Maybe you could try feeding her in front of them? Have you talked to a therapist or a doctor about how you're feeling and your current situation?

All you can really do is try to ignore it and get through it. I know that's way easier said than done. I believe that you have the strength to get through this and come out of it as a stronger person. It will take a lot of work to get past this feeling, but I believe in you. We are all here for you. Let me know if I can help in any other way.



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Re: Accusing me. - August 23rd 2016, 02:55 PM

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I've heard a lot from you bout your family and from what I know, you're probably better off ignoring anything and everything they say about you because good , nice family members are there to support you, not drag you beneath the ground. If they understand your struggles they would offer you moral support, and not do what they're doing right now. As long as you're a responsible mom and a nice person ( I know that you're both and its impossible for you to not be a good person.. i know how sweet and nice you are. )

Just keep in mind that you're a blessing and you always will be. I pity those who drag you down for they don't see just how special you are.

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