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Thumbs down I am so scared he is going to die! - August 25th 2016, 10:32 PM

This is making me horribly depressed and anxious!

Not even a full day ago, everything was normal. At 6pm my boyfriend told me via messenger that he was going to leave and get something to eat at his college cafeteria and he'd be back. Normally he is gone 40min-to an hour. Well he was gone for 3 hours. I was wondering why he was gone for so long and then my mom gets a call from his mom, he was skateboarding and fell and hit his head and developed an acute hemetoma in his brain, brain bleeding, and a bruise on his brain. He had brain surgery to reduce the swelling.

Fast foward to this morning. His swelling went up again and he had to have another surgery because his bruise was at a "12" rating. (Apprently there's a rating for the bruises, 1 is minimal, and 20 is fatal. His was at a 9 last night when he had surgery.)

The doctor is saying things like "if he survives". And I found out a few hours ago he is on life support and in a medically induced coma!
And this isn't even the critical recovery part..it has barely been a day.

I'm so scared and paranoid he's gonna die..he's only 18..I don't want him to die and I want to visit him in the hospital so bad..I visit him tomorrow night hopefully... I only know all this from what his parents have said.

It's amazing how things can change in such a short matter of time. I want things to be how they were.
   
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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - August 26th 2016, 05:18 AM

I'm sorry that this happened..

I'm hoping that he will be alright. I'm here to listen to you if you need to talk to someone about this... hoping that he survives and that the two of you can continue to be together.

Hoping that he will be alright and be back up again.

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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - August 26th 2016, 12:09 PM

Hey there,

I'm so sorry you're going through this, but I'm sure the doctors will do everything possible for him! Stay strong and hopefully you'll be together again soon.

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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - August 26th 2016, 05:45 PM

Hello,

this is terrible and I can only begin to imagine what it must feel like to fear for the life of someone you love and not be able to do anything to help them. Just know that he is taken good care of and he was put in a medical coma to help his body recover, so even though it's a scary thought that he isn't conscious right now and has to rely on life support doesn't mean he won't wake up again.

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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - August 30th 2016, 04:57 PM

Ahhhh Im so sorry! This is so sad. Like Im about to start crying after reading this! lots of love && positive energy going to both of you. Stay strong beautiful, itll be okay xx
   
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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - August 30th 2016, 05:18 PM

Hi, I'm so sorry to hear this. It must be so horrible to not be able to help, but the doctors will do everything they can to help him recover. I know it's impossible not to worry, but he is in the best place right now and getting the best care. Just because he is in life support doesn't mean he won't wake up, so stay strong, and our thoughts are with you both <3

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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - August 30th 2016, 11:56 PM

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Wow, I am sorry this is happening! I hope that he is going to OK. It must be hard for you to not be with him right now but please try to stay positive I know that is easier said than done... I am sure that doctors are doing everything that they can to help him.

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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - August 31st 2016, 12:13 AM

Oh wow. That's horrible! Our thoughts are with you both and I hoping he makes a quick recovery. He will need you to remain positive for him. Keep us posted


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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - September 1st 2016, 01:29 AM

You guys asked for an update, so...

Said goodbye to him today. Apparently the swelling is so bad that he will not recover. His brain is going to give out soon and he will die. He will not survive this.
   
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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - September 1st 2016, 01:36 AM

I am so so sorry to hear this.

I've gone through something similar, so PM me if you want to talk about it.
Again i'm so sorry.


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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - September 1st 2016, 06:19 AM

Words can't express how sorry I am to hear this. I know that you're in a lot of pain right now and you might rather be alone, but please know that people are there to support you through the grief and some of them might have lost a loved one in a similar way.

I'm so sorry and if there's any way for me to help you, please let me know.


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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - September 1st 2016, 07:22 AM

I am so so sorry to hear that. Please know that we are all here to help you through this grief, and our thoughts are with you

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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - September 1st 2016, 03:35 PM

I can't say that I know how you feel, because I don't. Losing someone you love and hold dearly really sucks.

I've had something similar happen to me so I can at least sympathize with how you're feeling. I'm really sorry this is happening to you. It shouldn't be, nor should anyone have to go through this.

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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - September 1st 2016, 07:52 PM

Final update- He passed away today at 12:15 pm.
I feel kind of guilty for not being there when he died. Great.
   
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Re: I am so scared he is going to die! - September 1st 2016, 11:28 PM

Hey Hey Hey,
Firstly, I'm really sorry.
Next, don't beat yourself up. Would he want you to beat yourself to a pulp? No right.
You couldn't be there all the time. Its not your fault.
Please PM me if you wanna chat. I know exactly what you're going through.


PM me if you ever wanna talk. Send a message my way.
And remember, you matter. You're awesome. You're beautiful. Stay strong, the world will get better.

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