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Unhappy I'm at my lowest point...dont know at this point - October 9th 2016, 06:48 AM

I just need to release more stress out because obviously my stress is neverending no matter what i do..to be honest, couple days ago I was going to try and end my life again due to financial stresses and not seeing a future. I thought ah my future is going to collaspse cause of a bad decision I made...happened to barely crawl out of that hole into safety. I was ready to die of the life stresses and not being able to find a solution out of the mess i got myself in..still in big mess and only safe for now...I'm hoping this stress will have a solution and i wont feel like i need to die all the time because right now it feels hellish and everything around me is slowly crumbling..and ive sald this before that if i dont find a job soon and dont fix the situation soon im going end my life..not the best choice but ugh dont know. I miss my grandpa, prob the only good person im my life who supported me and want to be up there with him somewhere where i dont have to stress anymore...



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Re: I'm at my lowest point...dont know at this point - October 9th 2016, 07:07 PM

Hi there

Financial stress is difficult; I have about $65,000 in student loan debt. However, there are ways around it. Can your financial stress be worked out with some kind of payment plan?

What I want you to know is that it's okay to hurt. The amount of jobs out right now is very low. And places want experience but in order to get experience you need a job. :P What are some positives going in your life right now? Do you have any friends or family you can talk to for social support?
   
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Re: I'm at my lowest point...dont know at this point - October 10th 2016, 11:17 AM

Remember our promise.. I know that you can definitely overcome this. I just hope that things get better soon... try to look into all sorts of areas where you could work in and contribute in some way, and every thing you try can be a lesson for you.. one good thing can lead to another good thing, and one bad thing... MIGHT lead to a good thing..

I know that you can beat this.. remember our promise , and know that I'm right here with you.


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Re: I'm at my lowest point...dont know at this point - October 10th 2016, 06:14 PM

Hello there

Thanks for coming to us here. I hope we can help and support you. You really do not deserve to go through this alone.

I'm sorry you are stressing over the financial side of things. I don't know whether you're in school, college or university but if so is there someone you can go to for some advice with it? If not I know in England we have a charity that will help with these things so maybe its worth having a bit of a google to see what help for this is available in your area of where you live. If you want to rant to us about it, go ahead. We're here to listen.

Your life is not worth ending because of this though. You have so much more in life than money like the small beauty in things and within yourself. I know having suicidal thoughts can be really hard but remember, they are just thoughts, they can not hurt you and you have power over them. Try to use distractions and alternatives when you need them like playing a game, going to the gym or for a run, petting a pet, doing work, watching a film, seeing a friend, and so on. Also maybe it would be a good idea to keep a blog on here or keep a journal to write down how you feel, what is on your mind and about what you're thinking and the urges too. Some people find it beneficial to rip it all up afterwards but I just tend to write in a journal and it helps and I do blog on here too which really helps me get some things out of me.

If you feel at risk of seriously harming yourself or ending your life, please reach out to someone around you. We're always here for you no matter what but because we are a website, we can't be there psychically and keep you safe so family, friends, your doctor, A&E/ED, hotlines etc are all good places and people to go too. Just as long as you are safe because you are the priority in this okay?

Never be alone. We'll do what ever we can here to help you and we are always here to listen too. You can do this so keep on fighting. We'll fight with you.

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