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confused - May 23rd 2009, 05:49 AM

i dont really know what to say

i hate my life i used to cut almost everyday but stoped and now ive started again i fell in love with my best friend im probably going to fail my finals i cant concentrate on anything and my family is driving me insane i started seeing the counsler at school but it isnt wasnt doing anything for me and i was missing class so i stoped i used to cry myself to sleep every single night but now i can bearly get two tears i try to be happy and have fun but i dont know i just dont feel pure happiness i dont know what to do ive tried talking to complete strangers iv tried talking to close friends which really doesnt do anything ive been writting a journal for almost two years now but my family keeps trying to read it and now im afraid to write i dont know what else to do what else to try please help me
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Re: confused - May 23rd 2009, 06:36 AM

hay just relacks and tack a deep breth it will be ok now and insted of riting a jurnall y net put it on her and maby get som sugeschins wall your at it becus we are all her to help u ok

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Re: confused - May 23rd 2009, 09:54 PM

Hey Nita,

I am sorry that you are feeling like this. When you are feeling like this it can be so hard to just sit down and be able to focus on anything because you constantly feel on the go. You could try writing an online journal that way no one would be able to read it and you would be able to get your feelings out. It can be really helpful to write a journal and just be able to get everything out. Do you know what it is that is stopping you from being fully happy? Perhaps if you could identify that you might be able to do something so you could feel happier like you deserve. I think you just need to keep doing things that make you feel better and hopefully in time you will be able to feel that full happiness. Stay strong :-)
   
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Re: confused - May 23rd 2009, 09:55 PM

Hi Nita

i dont really know what to say

Thats Ok, I will see how I can help you

i hate my life i used to cut almost everyday but stoped and now ive started again i fell in love with my best friend im probably going to fail my finals i cant concentrate on anything and my family is driving me insane i started seeing the counsler at school but it isnt wasnt doing anything for me and i was missing class so i stoped i used to cry myself to sleep every single night but now i can bearly get two tears i try to be happy and have fun but i dont know i just dont feel pure happiness i dont know what to do ive tried talking to complete strangers iv tried talking to close friends which really doesnt do anything ive been writting a journal for almost two years now but my family keeps trying to read it and now im afraid to write i dont know what else to do what else to try please help me

I think that because of your finals, you are probbaly more prone to stress & depression. Once you have finished, you will feel a great heaviness dissapear from you.

Its so hard to try to be happy. I know, because I was in the same position. Smiling on the outside, broken within.

The best thing to do is to get one of those voice activiated journals. or a journal with a key, so as you can still write, because writing is a better coping mechanism thyan cutting & writing is easier to hide than cuts & scars.


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Re: confused - May 24th 2009, 02:20 AM

just relax don't do anything you may regret.

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Re: confused - May 24th 2009, 07:47 AM

thanks for the ideas i recently joined livejournal.com is that a good place to write? i dont know i just feel like school is making everything worse and i guess i've been feeling like this my whole life. and sometimes i feel so bipolar like id wake up happy and then be talking with my friends and randomly feel sad. like right now i dont feel sad. i dont feel anything and havent been for a while but i know its all going to come back to haunt me
ive been cuting for a while so the first scars are gone and nobody really notices the scars they blend in with my skin

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