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Another setback happened... - April 12th 2017, 09:08 AM

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I got to know a friend I once knew in the past...

and basically,, she got to know what I went through. She acted concerned at first...

but then later became cold and said stuff like " IT JUST MEANS I WONT BE THERE TO ACCOMPANY YOU AT CHURCH TO WING YOU AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS "

and later it turns out that she was not meeting me in order to meet another friend

.. but the truth was that also, last week.. I sorta was feeling tired . So I had to back out at the last minute at that I wasn't feeling nice..

So... I think that its very tough.

I need some..... words of encouragement, or something to make me believe that there's something left for me if I stay on, because I think that I really, really don't have much left in me.

I'm now facing... my demons and I'm being backed into a corner. It is .. extremely, extremely tough..

Also, this new person became somewhat distant after I told her what was bothering me. So... I feel like... I... I... am hurt, and I really won't find anyone as nice as that ex best friend anymore...


It's called a tunnel because there's ALWAYS a light at the end.



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Re: Another setback happened... - April 12th 2017, 09:19 AM



You deserve better


Do my best at everything I can to live a happy, perfect life.

Happy life won't come by being happy everyday. Struggle and always work hard.

Forgive other's imperfection, they will work hard about it once I point it out to them, just like what I should be doing.

On the other hand, never tolerate with my own mediocrity. Never slack and always strive improvement.

Never settle. Never give up.
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Re: Another setback happened... - April 13th 2017, 09:38 PM

People are ignorant, people are scared. They are scared of the unknown. Nobody tells us what depression is, nobody tries to explain it the way they should. That's why young people, they don't know, how much does it hurt, how much you suffer.
You just have to wait, and surely there is a person who will know the pain, or at least understand what you may be going through. For now all you can do is hope, and just like I said, bright days will come, a person who you will be able to talk to will be there.
   
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Re: Another setback happened... - April 13th 2017, 10:19 PM

We shall see. I'm extremely pained..


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Re: Another setback happened... - April 14th 2017, 06:38 AM

Sorry the new person did not work out.

Some people don't know what to do or how to help, and they just don't want to deal with it, so they move on and look for someone else.

Other people care more, they want to help, and they figure out how to be helpful, or they get some coaching on how to be helpful, either from the person they are helping, or from someone else who knows and understands.

It's really nice and often imperative to find someone who does understand and knows how to be helpful, which is often just be a good listener. Sometimes I just want someone to be with me without interacting with me, as interacting is too much for me, but being alone is also too much for me.

The right people are probably out there nearby. It's just hard to know how to find them.

Sorry I haven't figured out a solution to that 2nd part.

Thank you for posting!
   
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Re: Another setback happened... - April 14th 2017, 06:46 AM

Thanks


It's called a tunnel because there's ALWAYS a light at the end.



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