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¡Hello!...i'm valse i've always been very closed to others i don't use to express myself and well this years have been very rough for me i lost some of my "friends" and had many family problems, i always tried to don't care for all the things that happened me but the truth is that i always cared and that all that affected me in a very negative way but now... the things have got worst for me and about a year and half ago i started to Self-harm and other things... and i am hopeless right now i don't really see why keep going...i always tried to make the thing better but somehow i just mess it up it doesn't matters how hard i try i always ruin it and even if didn't did anything wrong everything would go wrong and end in a bad way... and honestly i am tired i don't really want to keep on... i am posting here, because i want to see if i can get a little hope.
   
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Re: Me... - July 10th 2017, 05:50 PM

Hi Valse and welcome TH!

I really do hope that you find the hope and encouragement you need!

It sounds like you've hit a rough patch. I'm assuming the the loss of "friends," means you don't see them as true friends, please correct me if I am wrong. Have you been able to make new friends after this loss? Making friends is a good step in feeling a little better. Friends can't fix your problems but they can be a great support system and can walk with you through the crappy parts! I am also sure many people on here would love to be your friend, and if you need a friend you can send me a message!

If you want to talk about your family problems, feel free too! This is a safe space. I get family problems, I've dealt with them most of my life. It gets easier, especially if you can create a space between them and the problems that you are having. I know that can be hard when you live at home, but sometimes just going a walk or going over a friends, or participating in a club/sport/volunteer service can help you get out of the environment.

Out of curiosity what all have you done to try to get out of this? Have you sought professional help? Counselors are amazing at handling these situations and can really get you on the right path. If you haven't already, I would suggest looking into that option.

Know that even though life is bad now, it won't always be.
I remember being 16 and hating every moment of my life.
But I am so glad that I'm alive and I'm sure eventually you'll reach the point that you're happy to be alive as well!

Stay strong.
If you ever want to chat about anything message me.
   
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Re: Me... - July 12th 2017, 03:37 PM

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Hi Valse and welcome TH!

I really do hope that you find the hope and encouragement you need!

It sounds like you've hit a rough patch. I'm assuming the the loss of "friends," means you don't see them as true friends, please correct me if I am wrong. Have you been able to make new friends after this loss? Making friends is a good step in feeling a little better. Friends can't fix your problems but they can be a great support system and can walk with you through the crappy parts! I am also sure many people on here would love to be your friend, and if you need a friend you can send me a message!

If you want to talk about your family problems, feel free too! This is a safe space. I get family problems, I've dealt with them most of my life. It gets easier, especially if you can create a space between them and the problems that you are having. I know that can be hard when you live at home, but sometimes just going a walk or going over a friends, or participating in a club/sport/volunteer service can help you get out of the environment.

Out of curiosity what all have you done to try to get out of this? Have you sought professional help? Counselors are amazing at handling these situations and can really get you on the right path. If you haven't already, I would suggest looking into that option.

Know that even though life is bad now, it won't always be.
I remember being 16 and hating every moment of my life.
But I am so glad that I'm alive and I'm sure eventually you'll reach the point that you're happy to be alive as well!

Stay strong.
If you ever want to chat about anything message me.
Well if i'm honest is a mix of both i lost friends and also feel like the ones that i have are not my friends (except one...that helps me a bit ) and my family... they say things like "i love you" and that but... the way the usually act shows the otherwise and i've been going to a phychologist but it doesn't seems to help, i still having the same problems that i've had almost all my life and are getting worse...
   
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