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its fucking pathetic that a Korean boy band is keeping me from killing myself I know that I will never meet them but I keep suffering just incase I do.
   
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Re: ... - August 18th 2017, 08:50 PM

Its not pathetic. I live for bands too. Do you momd PMing me so we can talk and maybe get you some help? Sending love your way!




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Re: ... - August 18th 2017, 09:21 PM

Hey there,

I'm sorry that you've been struggling so much that killing yourself has been a thought for you. I know that it might seem pathetic that a band you may or may not meet is keeping you alive, but I actually think that's a really good thing. Having even one positive in your life to keep you fighting is an amazing thing, and you should definitely hang onto it, however don't let it be your soul reason for being alive. Try to look at the band as an indication that there are good things in the world in general. Listen to their music and let it lift you up, let it bring you back from dark places, but don't let it be your only reason. Don't let it stop you from looking for others, and don't let it make you passive.

Coming out of a dark and bad place involves a lot of hard work sometimes, and a fight is needed to get through this. You should try to talk to someone and get some support in real life alongside using music as an escape. It's important to find a way through this, which can often take a lot of fighting and a while to do, however it's so worth it. Perhaps you can talk to a friend or family member, and even a professional such as a therapist if you can access one too, because this will stop you feeling so alone in dealing with this..

I hope that you find a way to fight this. Remember, you're not pathetic and never will be regardless of what it is that gets you through things. Take care.


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Re: ... - August 21st 2017, 03:09 PM

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Its not pathetic. I live for bands too. Do you momd PMing me so we can talk and maybe get you some help? Sending love your way!
no I don't mind PMing you
   
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