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Unhappy why am i here? how can i find myself? - September 24th 2017, 07:32 AM

Someone once told me that everything happens for a reason- like the big things, not small things.
Whether i believe them or not is another issue, but if it is, I would like to ask - why am I here. Why am I living when all that I get is hurt and pain? Why should I live if I cant give a full life back to anyone or even just live a full life?
I'm brought up a catholic. I'm supposed to believe in God. But how can I believe in someone who never helps me when I am hurt, like he is supposed to.how can I believe in him if all I've had os a lonely,depressing, suicidal life where last night I had never felt so alone in my whole life- why did I feel like that if God is always supposed to be there?
Where can I find myself again?
How can I find myself again?
   
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Re: why am i here? how can i find myself? - September 24th 2017, 05:12 PM

It seems you are really going through a rough time right now. Believe me, I've been there. I was hospitalized and realized that it wasn't my fault that I was feeling that way. It isn't your fault that you are feeling like this. I don't know what is going on in your life, but just remember that there is always something to live for. Maybe you don't feel like it now, but hold on. There is someone who wants you, who needs you, who is waiting to love you and care about you. Find some way to distract yourself from these thoughts. Maybe art? or music? Even if it is temporary, it might help you to get through this feeling right now. Hurt is temporary, love is forever. Just hold on until you find the love again.
   
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Re: why am i here? how can i find myself? - September 24th 2017, 07:45 PM

Hello,
I am really sorry that you are having a hard time right now. Things are always going to happen to us and they are going to be big and small and also good and bad. We will never be able to control it because it's life. And I know how you feel and I think the same way. We never want terrible things to happen to us, and we're always wondering why did this just have to happen. When you believe in God or who you believe in, they teach you that when terrible things happen we should pray more the God and come closer to him and he will always be with you. But the truth is when we get hurt we want to push ourselves away because it's hard to believe in someone when this is happening and you don't know how to deal with this. I am sorry that you are having a hard time and going through this. Can you try to do something to pick yourself up or take you're mind off of it. Can you go for a walk or put on music or a funny TV show the help? I hope you will be ok soon. Lots of Hugs.
   
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Re: why am i here? how can i find myself? - October 6th 2017, 11:09 AM

Hey! Stay strong.
   
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