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I am a fool - March 29th 2018, 06:44 AM

I made a very bad mistake. I was in a bad relationship and the thing is, the night that I planned on breaking up, was the night that my family found out about. dealt with months of his emotional abuse and I finally gained the will to end it, and now my family views me a aas a slut for being involved with him. He hates me, my family hates me and I just feel my emotions spiraling out of control. I don't know what to do anymore. My family made me pull out of my extracurricular activities and they won't allow me to work. They say that they don't want me here but now I feel trapped. I just don't know what to do anymore. It's always something with me. I'm always messing up.



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Re: I am a fool - March 29th 2018, 11:55 PM

Hey there,

I am glad that you were able to walk away from the relationship. You should be proud of yourself for doing so because it isn't easy. I am sorry your family is treating you the way that they are. I know it can be difficult to have your family treat you so unkindly but not everyone is going to treat you the same way as your family. From what little I have read about your family it seems like they might be emotionally abusive as well.

I am sorry that these things are leading you to feel so badly about yourself. Is there any way that you can get away from your family and find a safer place to live? I know that can be quite difficult to do but I figured I'd ask.

Do you have anyone you can turn to right now? Anyone who will support you and give you a safe person to lean on? It seems like finding a support person could be quite beneficial. Maybe a teacher at school or a friend would be able to provide that for you?


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Re: I am a fool - March 30th 2018, 06:45 AM

Thanks for replying,

Sadly, I don't have anywhere else to go.
I've been getting emotional support from my teachers but my only real option is to try to hold strong until November, when I'll be able to move with my Mom.



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Re: I am a fool - March 31st 2018, 01:14 PM

I understand being stuck in a situation like that. Something that helped me was finding a safe place. May go to your room to try and avoid people. It won't stop it completely but it might decrease how often you have to deal with it.

Feel free to message me as well.


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Re: I am a fool - April 2nd 2018, 06:26 AM

Thank you for the advice. I've been in my room reading and coloring. It helps me relax and the time goes by much faster. I really appreciate the support and if you ever want to talk about anything you can message me too.



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Re: I am a fool - April 2nd 2018, 08:16 PM

Thanks for the offer!

I am glad you have a safe place to go and relax. I know it's not the perfect solution but it can be nice to have somewhere that you can get away and de-stress. Coloring is a fun activity as well.


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