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I need some help - June 17th 2019, 12:13 AM

Okay so this may be not that important, but it's been screwing with me. There's this girl that I really really like and she rejected me back in December, yet she still flirts with me platonically. This "flirting" messes me up. I still freaking love her, and even her just saying hi to me messes me up so much that my mind starts going into that dark place that ends with suicidal thoughts and actions. and Its starting to get more frequent and now it's gotten to the point that anything romance related will set me off, get me depressed, and I go back to self-harm and abusing drugs and alcohol. I've talked to my therapist but she doesn't really seem to understand how bad the situation is for me. I've tried so many things to get her off of my mind and to move on, but I can't.

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Re: I need some help - June 18th 2019, 08:28 PM

It seems to me like this girl knows the power she has over you, at least a little. She is messing with your head intentionally, maybe?? Someone who doesn’t want you and who hurts you is not a person that deserves your love and admiration. You should love someone who is kind and who values you and wants you back. What’s the fun in wanting someone who doesn’t even care about you, what’s the appeal?? Someone who loves you, is kind to you, treats you with respect, doesn’t play mind games, that’s a person worth keeping around. I understand how difficult it is, trust me I’ve been in an absuive relationship and it’s so hard to let go. But you are wayyy better than someone who drags you down. They aren’t worth losing your life or giving your time to drugs and shitty people or death. There are people who love and support you!!

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Re: I need some help - June 20th 2019, 04:56 AM

I agree with Daggers. Do your best to avoid her. If she becomes more of a problem, talk to teacher about it.

As for the therapist, I recommend finding a new one if they aren't helping. Especially if you told them about abusing drugs and no actions were taken. You deserve to get better.

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