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Unhappy I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 16th 2009, 03:34 AM

Okay lately everythings gone wrong this summer, im ready for school to come back, this the worst summer aposedd to last summer.
This summer, okay im starting to see my boyfriend i adore dearly more then ever and our parents love each other n they love us so thats a plus,
Me n my mom n him n his mom, we all went out to eat saturday, he just got a new phone and bought me some nice very inexpensive stuff when he was in atl [ love is priceless so idc ] and we had a good time that night n our parents are going to let us go on more.
Thats the only GOOD thing okay whats gone wrong is the fact okay last month i went over my minutes by only a little then i started usinn the "suppose to be" unlimited minutes which is nights n weekends, notice i quotedd suppose, as i got off the phone one night n saw my minutes it said i used 2 hundred n something more i was like wtf how is that?!
So i just stoppedd usin it all together but that sat the company cut it off, so i couldnt use it anyways..my mom found out n i promised i wouldnt do it again and i havent its the like the 3rd week of july n i only have used a hundred n something outta a thousand they send us a almost 2 hundred
dollar bill with the last week of the last month n the beginning the july adding up local time even when i used it after hours...can anyone explain to me why?? are the doing something new? this has never happened before even when i did go over the minutes, i did once before with the new fone i got but my mom didnt notice lol..i have t-mobile by the way...plus my mom still has another line open which isnt used...dnt she still pay extra for that? im lost here!
The person i really connect with is on punishment, which is my boyfriend & cant talk so now i have to confide n you nice people n his brother who still has his fone n im textinn him frm yahoo.
I tried my best not cry when i tried to tell my mom she could go to virginia n i didnt have to go since ive already been there..but i was chokinn up n she told me to go away and she didnt want to speak to me...
She told me that she cant buy her self anything decent always worryin about me n i take stuff for granted i never took her seriously until today...i really feel hurt, i wish i can pay her back but i have no job im only 15 n if i tried to get one she wouldnt let me...i wanna try n reach her n tell her she can terminate my phone plan n i can just get a prepaidd fone but her pockets will be hurt even more because she has to pay t-mobile 200$ because its in the middle of her agreement... i wanted a new cool phone i saw recently but i can just forget that...
I lost my room on the last day of school because my mom needed to put an extra bed in the room for a new client, my mom runs a pch at her house, which she had n promised me 50$ a month if i help with her, i needed tht 50$ but she started telling her fam that we abuse n stuff because she wanted to go back home so shes gone n my mom need extra money because of my money needs next year im gonna be a jr, im in there by myself again but i mean the bigger tv i had is back here next to my computer i had in my room, urg!
Im jealous of my boyfriend because he lives in a huge house n a great neighborhood, little or no crime, no police serins there house/car hasnt been shot up or broken into, he has his REAL n both his parents he has 4 other sibilings, he has a job, hes 16, they have everything i only dream of having here....he prolly knows im a bit jealous of i always wish i had what he had but dosent dawn upon the point..
i try and be as grateful as i can, atleast i have a computer n cable n food to eat, n clothes n enough shoes on my feet, sure they arent forces n all these other name brands i want but thier shoes, my mom buys some stuff i hate n says im ungrateful,i just shrug it off, take it say thanks n throw it in the back of the closet, i just think of it as the fact we dnt always like the same things...n later when its closet clean out time i give it away to someone who really needs it...
Sure this will blow over, but what if me n my mom dont get to go va because of this? My fam will critisize me, wait till my granma gets home too n hears about it, i will never hear the last of this...
Its hard living like this but its even harder to think im hurting the person i love and worryin less about my consequences n more about less important things n people, i surely have to change...
I feel better now letting all this out to yu...but cud some of yu spare some advice please?
   
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Re: I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 16th 2009, 06:18 AM

Hi Ashley,

I'm glad getting all that out helped. It sounds like you're going through a lot. The phone bill thing sounds weird - is there anyway you could call them to explain the situation and ask what's not corresponding, or at least to go over the details so you have a clearer idea of what the plan really is now?

And I'm sorry that things are rough with your mom. But she's an adult and knows that there will be consequences to her choices - none of which are your fault. It seems like you're doing what you can to help her out, and know that you should be proud of that. She's your mother, and you don't have to pay her back or anything.

I can understand how you'd want more security. But just be careful of the "grass being greener on the other side" thing. Though hoping for a stable family situation and a sense of safety is perfectly okay. Do you have a school counselor you could maybe talk to? He/she might be able to help out some.

And we're always here to listen. I hope the advice maybe helped out some - I'll let you know if I think of anything better...

Hang in there. And PM me anytime!


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Re: I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 16th 2009, 08:30 PM

We triedd that already i tried to ask why all this was happening myself but he needed to speak to the account holder n my mom couldnt understand him so shes going to the place to get it straighten out...
School is out currently...but even then no i dont...
i just talk to my boyfriend...
i have no real friends no more...
Thier all fake or dont care to listen
But thanks...
   
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Re: I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 17th 2009, 03:34 AM

Mmm, sorry to hear that your friends aren't really being friends. But you've definitely got time to find new people, who'll be a better community.

And hey, wanna be friends?

Hang in there.


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Re: I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 17th 2009, 02:19 PM

Okay sure...
I wish i could be in a better community and go to a different school then what im going to...surely like my boyfriends...his is my dream society..
and thanks!
   
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Re: I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 18th 2009, 04:28 AM

No prob I like new friends

Is there anyway you could check into switching schools? Or, maybe doing an activity outside of school, so you can meet people to hang out with or whatever there, too?


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Re: I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 19th 2009, 11:34 PM

I wishh.
My mom wont let me now...
& no i dont think so...i wishh i find something i shouldd be able to after football season this year...
   
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Re: I almost made her cry & its my fault! - June 20th 2009, 04:17 AM

Sorry that your mom won't let you switch schools. But I guess then just try to find something you can do to help you cope in the mean time, with friends and stuff that you like to and whatnot in some new activity.

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