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text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 12:44 PM

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andy, my ex, and i were having a text argument again :-s
but how low is this to send to an ex -

"At least i didnt try and kill myself LOL OMG I hate life hahahahahahahaha
i'll go and kill myself and fail just to get attention! boohoo!....shame u didnt succeed...but maybe next time huh?"


i actually dont know what to do, i feel physically sick........

how am i supposed to respond to that??


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 12:51 PM

My best suggestion is don't respond but I highly recommend changing your number. I'm really sorry he wrote that to you I don't know what else to say . Please change your number, you didn't do anything wrong, I know I don't know the whole sotyr but I think it's was just him trying to wind you up and you shouldn't react to it. I'm sorry I'm no help


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 12:59 PM

Try and change your number? and obviously don't respond to that your not worth that at all and thats just really wrong and horrible to say such a thing to you.


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 01:27 PM

As already suggested, change your sim, and register a new number. Don't respond, he's not worth your tears. Your worth so much more than that! It's a horrible thing to say! Don't let his harsh words get to you, we all love you. He'll feel the guilt from saying that.

He wants a reaction, don't give him one.

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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 01:35 PM

He's doing this purely to hurt you, and therefore is worth absolutely none of your time. Block his number, or change yours. He needs to learn he can't treat people like that.
I hope you're ok, just ignore him [:


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 01:48 PM

You don't respond. As said, he's trying to hurt and upset you, hitting you where he thinks it'll hurt the most and it seems to be working but you don't wanna let him know that. Ignore it, rise above his immaturity and show him that you just don't care and he won't bother again. Don't let it get to you too much. I'm here if you need anyone x
   
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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 02:42 PM

ive been in this situation more than once, its horrible hearing someone you love saying things like that. ignore him, it'll piss him off all the more. he's not worth your tears girl, be strong cos no man is worth your tears - but the one that is wont make you cry! xx


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 02:42 PM

oh honey.
i've been in a similar situation a girl who i used to be friends with said something similar,
he's being an immature butthole, dont respond to it at all, and change your number or block him. if you need anyone to talk to PM me


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 04:22 PM

what an ass.
He's just an immature cunt who doesn't know how to deal with life.
Like other people said, consider changing your number or blocking his.
Best of luck, sweetie. <3


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 04:28 PM

My friend had a similar situation where his ex made fun of him for going to a psychiatrist, and he responded with the silver bullet 'this is why it was so easy to break up with you '....it shut her up fast

Or, as it has been repeatedly said, you can change your number.


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 21st 2009, 04:50 PM

What a sick Person he is for saying that. No matter what he shouldnt of went that low. Just be the bigger person in it and take no notice to his stupid child ways. Your doing just fine as you are and your ALOT better without him


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 22nd 2009, 07:40 AM

thank-you all for your replies
im proud of myself for not crying, i shouldnt waste any more tears on him.
He lives with my close mate in york so i've told her what he said because i want people to know that im not the crazy f****d up one, and he's the one that is.
I didn't sleep very well last night, i want revenge, but at the end of the day is it worth it?

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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 22nd 2009, 07:51 AM

My ex knows that exact thing to say to hurt me. To weaken me. I know what it's like. Just try to block it out. Don't respond and maybe in a day or two he'll realize how much he hurt you. Don't worry. Smile.


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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 22nd 2009, 11:25 PM

i can't believe he'd send you something like that.
what a heartless asshole. please feel better, i've been there, it doesn't hurt forever.

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Re: text from ex :'-( - July 23rd 2009, 01:02 PM

was he drunk or something?

my sister said something like that to me right after my attempt. but she was very stressed and had to take care of me the whole weekend so it was understandable.
   
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