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andy, my ex, and i were having a text argument again :-s
but how low is this to send to an ex -
"At least i didnt try and kill myself LOL OMG I hate life hahahahahahahaha
i'll go and kill myself and fail just to get attention! boohoo!....shame u didnt succeed...but maybe next time huh?"
i actually dont know what to do, i feel physically sick........
My best suggestion is don't respond but I highly recommend changing your number. I'm really sorry he wrote that to you I don't know what else to say . Please change your number, you didn't do anything wrong, I know I don't know the whole sotyr but I think it's was just him trying to wind you up and you shouldn't react to it. I'm sorry I'm no help
You were the angel of my life, taught me to be free
As already suggested, change your sim, and register a new number. Don't respond, he's not worth your tears. Your worth so much more than that! It's a horrible thing to say! Don't let his harsh words get to you, we all love you. He'll feel the guilt from saying that.
He's doing this purely to hurt you, and therefore is worth absolutely none of your time. Block his number, or change yours. He needs to learn he can't treat people like that.
I hope you're ok, just ignore him [:
"Life is pain, anybody that says different is selling something" ~ Fezzik's Mother, The Princess Bride. ♥
"To die, would be an awfully big adventure."~ Peter Pan
"Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumoured by many.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.
Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.
But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it."
~ The Buddha
You don't respond. As said, he's trying to hurt and upset you, hitting you where he thinks it'll hurt the most and it seems to be working but you don't wanna let him know that. Ignore it, rise above his immaturity and show him that you just don't care and he won't bother again. Don't let it get to you too much. I'm here if you need anyone x
ive been in this situation more than once, its horrible hearing someone you love saying things like that. ignore him, it'll piss him off all the more. he's not worth your tears girl, be strong cos no man is worth your tears - but the one that is wont make you cry! xx
"All the haters I swear, they look so small from up here..."
i've been in a similar situation a girl who i used to be friends with said something similar,
he's being an immature butthole, dont respond to it at all, and change your number or block him. if you need anyone to talk to PM me
Then you will be innocent and without any wrong. You will be Gods children without fault. But you are living with crooked and mean people all around you, among whom you shine like stars in the dark world.
My friend had a similar situation where his ex made fun of him for going to a psychiatrist, and he responded with the silver bullet 'this is why it was so easy to break up with you '....it shut her up fast
Or, as it has been repeatedly said, you can change your number.
"We will ask nothing. We will demand nothing. We will take." -- May 1968, French Graffiti
What a sick Person he is for saying that. No matter what he shouldnt of went that low. Just be the bigger person in it and take no notice to his stupid child ways. Your doing just fine as you are and your ALOT better without him
thank-you all for your replies
im proud of myself for not crying, i shouldnt waste any more tears on him.
He lives with my close mate in york so i've told her what he said because i want people to know that im not the crazy f****d up one, and he's the one that is.
I didn't sleep very well last night, i want revenge, but at the end of the day is it worth it?
My ex knows that exact thing to say to hurt me. To weaken me. I know what it's like. Just try to block it out. Don't respond and maybe in a day or two he'll realize how much he hurt you. Don't worry. Smile.
"No matter how bad something is hurting us... sometimes it hurts worse to let it go..."