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No more. Please. - November 7th 2009, 07:38 PM

My girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. Long story short, everything got fucked up then it was at the break up. She hates me now.
Sometimes I feel like I'll be fine. But most of the time I want to die.
I went out with her for 8 months and attached myself so much to her.
Everything brings about a memory of her.
Its tormenting my mind.

I've talk to friends, I've talked to professionals.

Nothing is helping.

I dont want to do it because of my friends and family but I feel that soon that wont be enough to stop me.
   
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Re: No more. Please. - November 8th 2009, 06:39 AM

Hey there,

I am sorry to hear about this. 8 months is a while to be in a relationship with someone and splitting up with must have caused you all sorts of emotions. It is good though that you have talked to friends and professionals. Perhaps you need to talk to the professionals involved with you and tell them nothing is helping. They can't help unless they know that it isn't helping. You just have to be honest with the people that are trying to help you. Also it can take time for things to help but that doesn't mean you should give up. You have to keep fighting through it because things have to get easier in time. Your family and friends are definitely a reason to hang on for. They would probably be devastated if anything happened to you. You just have to keep reminding yourself that there are people that care about you and wouldn't want you to do this to yourself. You are strong so don't give up.

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Re: No more. Please. - November 8th 2009, 08:14 PM

Hey,

This break-up may feel like the end of the world, and understandably so. You were with this girl for a long time, and it seems that you were very close. I understand that you must be in so much pain right now, so much that death seems preferable. However, I can promise you that you WILL be happy again someday, that life is still worth living.

When my significant other of three years left me over the summer, I thought I would never be whole again. Now, I am so much happier. I am in a loving relationship with someone who treats me so much better, someone who loves me for who I really am. You can be happy again, too. You just have to stay strong and keep fighting.

It's great that you've been talking to these people about what you are going through; keep it up. It may not seem to help much right now, but in the long run, it will make you feel so much better. Getting these emotions out of you is so important; keeping all of this inside will only make things more difficult.

If you ever need to talk about anything, I'm here. Take care.


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