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Unhappy wanna die - November 8th 2009, 02:31 AM

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i want to die. i want to be with my grandpa. it's all my fault my grandpa died. i was so bad good took him way. i'm giving up sorry

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Re: wanna die - November 8th 2009, 06:33 AM

Hey Erika,

I am so sorry to hear about this. But don't give up because it will get better in time. I can understand that you might want to be with your grandpa but would he want that? I don't think he would; I think he would want you to live a happy life. I am not quite sure how it is your fault he died. But I don't think it is your fault. You can't be responsible for someone else passing away so you really shouldn't blame yourself for it. You might have done things in life you regret but you learn from these. It is hard though and I know just how difficult it is to lose someone close but you have to try to think back to what they would want for you. Like your grandpa would not want you to feel like this and would probably be realy sad to see you feeling so low. Hold onto the happy memories you spent with your grandpa.

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Re: wanna die - November 8th 2009, 08:08 PM


Death is a natural occurance in life...it is not something that you can control. It is in no way your fault that your grandfather passed away. I know that if you could have done anything to help him, you would have. Sadly, there was nothing you could have done. I am so sorry for your loss; I know that this must hurt a great deal right now, but I promise that it will get easier with time. Just have faith and stay strong; you can do this.

I know that dying may seem preferable to the pain you are currently in, but it just isn't worth it. You have so much to live for; what about all the people in your life that love you? What about all the things you have yet to experience, the wonderful life you could have? Things are so difficult right now, but it will not be this way forever. You will get through this, and you will be happy again some day. Have hope; time can heal all wounds.

Take care. If you'd ever like to talk about anything, feel free to contact me.

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Re: wanna die - November 10th 2009, 11:10 PM

hey erika

it aint your fault your grandpa died. im not your grandpa but im sure he wont want to see you blaming your self for his death. when there is a hello there is a good bye. dont you think your grandpa will be happy if you smiled and wish him to rest in peace? and live your life to the fullest. im sure he will want that.
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