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When will everything be ok? - January 18th 2010, 08:51 PM

Hey everyone, ive been off teenhelp for awhile n came back to just update on a few things n say that all the advice on here is great its just from 6 months ago. nothing has changed. im still the same empty person that just goes to work comes back and sleep. i broke up with my ex 6 months ago and yesterday found out she found someone else just 1 month after we broke up.

My hear was pounding out of my chest and i didnt no what to do, in all these 6 months alone ive just wanted her to appear and just hug her because i love her, i always will and i said to her id never find anyone else , she said the same but some ppl clearly dnt mean the things they say, like pointless love yous, they never ment anything. they just say it because they think it. I ment it when i said it and i no ill only ever love her in my life.

what can i do ghuys? what can i do to make the images go away and all the bad thoughts and the will not to live because all i ever want was her and now thats just impossible. sent her a letter sying do u want to be friends, she has deleted her fb and i bet threw it in the bin. ive tried


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Re: When will everything be ok? - January 18th 2010, 09:00 PM

I know it feels like the end of the world when something like that happens but honestly, get together with your friends go out and have some forget about the images forget about the whole situation, if she doesn't even want to be friends she isn't worth it.
you will find someone better, and you'll wonder why you even thought what you had with her was love. I know, I've been there.
Just stick it out be strong and have some fun, it will be okay. Give yourself time.


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Re: When will everything be ok? - January 18th 2010, 09:04 PM

Thats exactly what she did and just forgot about me, im not that sort of person to just fill my life with activitis just to forget about something that means so much to me, its almost going against what i believe in? its hard to explain. thanks you for ur reply though. sick of hanging on for somethign good, 6 months n nothing


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Re: When will everything be ok? - January 19th 2010, 08:15 PM

For me, I have to find something useful to dedicate my life and time to. Not so much to distract myself and forget, but to fill the place, give my efforts some meaning, you know? I kind of see it like a bridge to carry me over.


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