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I feel like crap - January 20th 2010, 02:02 AM

Recently I've been feeling like crap. I've just been feeling really upset. If someone says something nice about me I just deny it and refuse to believe it.

I feel unloved, as I've only been in 2 very short relationships (not even a week) and asked out twice, while all my friends are off in relationships.

I'm scared to go back to school as I'll have to face getting teased again like I was last year.

One of my friends threatened to stop talking to me if I don't cheer up, but it seems really hard to be happy again.

I just hate feeling like this.
   
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Smile Re: I feel like crap - January 20th 2010, 02:34 AM

I completely understand you and honestly, I had the same problem about 3 months ago.

My friends seemed farther away every day and I felt more and more unloved. Im a rather outgoing person but the feeling of being alone was pushing me down more and more. Is there a reason for your being upset?

I would refuse compliments, but the thing I found to do was just put on a smile and nod, whether or not you agree. Do you not mentally agree with them? When was the last time you were in a relationship?

As my friends obviously noticed I seemed withdrawn. To get them back, I swore to myself I would try and stay happy, enjoying the small things in life. We spent more time together and that for sure helped our friendly relationships. Over time, (only a few days) we started hanging out again and meeting new people, sometimes even new love. Love is a very important thing and I understand your feeling of being unloved and alone. We all need that shoulder to lean on. But sometimes love comes out of the happiness and smiles you let out

So first things first. The best thing I've found is enjoying life. From then on becoming happy will slowly but surely be achieved This happiness will bring back friends and even new ones! From your friendship your happiness will grow even more and reach to far places like love.

We all have those bumps in life. Sometimes more or less than others. And overcoming those bumps can be hard, but well worth it. Your life is important and a fantastic thing, you may not feel it, but you are loved whether it's by family or friends
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 20th 2010, 03:01 AM

I'm not sure if there's a reason for me being upset.

The last time I was in a relationship was these school holidays, it was on the 30th of December and it was with a guy I really liked before he asked me out, and the relationship didn't even last 24 hours. He didn't give me a reason for breaking up with me and we never actually went out. He asked me out over the internet and we talked once on the phone. I knew him from school, though.
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 20th 2010, 03:57 AM

It sounds like you are in the side effects I like to call "The Poison of Love".

Usually after a relationship (no matter how long it lasts, whether or not you're going out or just like them) you feel like you want to feel that same in love feeling that you get from them, yes? This can last from a day to months depending on how your emotions usually are. Only time and a strong devotion to being happy again will cure the poison. Don't let the feeling of being unloved get to you because honestly; many people love you, whether you know it or not

After you're happy again you're pain will slowly go away. This pain can last a long time but you just have to remember and think over and over, "If they don't want to be with me then they don't know what their missing!"

Trust me only happiness and time can take away the pain and poison
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 20th 2010, 04:21 AM

I don't think its from the breakup, I handled it better than my first breakup. But I do want that feeling of being loved, I can barely watch TV shows or movies with romance in them, listen to love songs or even look at someone's MSN personal message (if they're in a relationship) without tearing up.
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 21st 2010, 03:50 AM

We all want to be loved I think everyone once in their life feels that feeling that you're feeling. Have you tried talking to your parents or friends about this?
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 21st 2010, 09:22 AM

My parents never knew about the relationships, and I don't want to tell them that I feel depressed.

2 years ago I cut myself for a while, and a few weeks later my mum found out. She sent me to see a psychologist and put me on medication. I absolutely hated both of those things and it made me beyond uncomfortable.

So yeah...don't wanna go down that road again.

If I talk to my friends about it they think I'm complaining and winging to them and it always ends in a fight.
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 21st 2010, 03:02 PM

Ask yourself "If I was happy, how would life be different than it is now?" It may be hard to imagine if you've been in emotional pain for a long time, but try to write as much as you can about what your life would be like. Then try to pick out the things in your "happy" life that you actually have control over and can work towards. Something like winning the lottery isn't realistic, but there are probably going to be several things that you do have control over. Make them specific and realistic goals.

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Re: I feel like crap - January 22nd 2010, 12:11 AM

If you need to talk:
THE NUMBERS BELOW DONT CHARGE U ONE PENNIE! They are there to help!

call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline on 1-800-784-2433. What they do is talk and comfort you.

Call the Help Line which is 1-800-999-9999 but is a place where you can talk to someone about your problems for free. Its just like the suicide help line but not for people who are sucidal.
http://nineline.org/
I HIGHLY RECCOMEND FOR KIDS/TEENS. but also good for adults.


AND YOU HALF TO PAY FOR THIS NUMBER LISTED BELOW!
1-800-275-5336
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 23rd 2010, 03:45 AM

Well, I've started feeling a lot better. I've met this really awesome guy who is the sweetest.
   
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Re: I feel like crap - January 29th 2010, 09:53 AM

But the only problem is, I feel like this guy is my only source of happiness. I didn't talk to him for three days in the past week because I was unable to, and I started slightly going back to my depressed self.
   
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Re: I feel like crap - February 4th 2010, 06:46 AM

i agree with dandi cupcake, if you ever need anyone to talk to or need help with anything at all i am on every night so you are welcome to send me a pm or a vm and i'd be more then happy to talk to you
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