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im dun - January 27th 2010, 01:06 AM

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i cant take it all this stres all this pain and sufering its kiling me and im dun deeling with it i dont know wut to do eny more deth seems to be the only way out

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Re: im dun - January 27th 2010, 01:25 AM

death is never the way out. talk to your friends or if don't want to talk to friends email at alexshort154@yahoo.com i'd be gald to talk to talk to you.


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Re: im dun - January 27th 2010, 01:39 AM

Dude i was in the exact same place as you are right now. I too felt that i couldnt go on neither but here i am today. There has to be somthing or someone you can hold on to. Thats how i got though it. I wrote everyday. Just to get crap off my mind. Most of all i had a friend over the internet that helped me though it day by day. Just look around here. There are so many people willing to be your friend here and help you though the hard times. Including me! So try and stay strong. Even if the light at the end of the tunnel is dim there still is light!



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Re: im dun - January 27th 2010, 01:44 AM

iv lost every thand the girl of my dreems and the closist theng i had to a reel famly and im allwaus woryed abaut her all the time
   
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Re: im dun - January 27th 2010, 04:27 AM

There are pleanty of girls out there. Im sure you will find someone. I though i had the girl of my dreams but she turned out to be the girl of my nightmares. That was 4 years ago and i just found the real girl of my dreams. Point is dont give up on love. You will find that special someone and when you do your going to be glad you didnt give up!



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Re: im dun - January 27th 2010, 01:03 PM

it dusint rily hellp that im scared to deth of people naw and im leeving for colige and im tarified i will be living with 3 people i have never met in my life im having an enxiety atke just thenking abaut it
   
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Re: im dun - January 27th 2010, 02:45 PM

Hey! It seems like you're going through a rough patch. Just remember that hurting or killing yourself isn't the answer. You're still only 18, you have plenty to live for, and most things don't just fall on your lap when you're still young (otherwise everyone would be happily married with a big house and 5 kids and a swimming pool and a Ferrari before they turned 20). About the girl... I know it's hard, but you'll have to give yourself time and distractions and try to move on. Rergarding social anxiety, I think your best bet, is to see a doctor.
   
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Re: im dun - January 27th 2010, 11:03 PM

Just look at collage as a way to make some new friends. Just get to know your room mates. Most of the time they arnt that bad.



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Re: im dun - January 28th 2010, 12:21 AM

Hey there,

Although life can be very overwhelming, suicide is not the answer. You have your whole life to live ahead of you. Find someone to talk to about this in your life. Whether it's a family member, friend, counselor, or spiritual leader. There are so many people willing to listen you just have to step up and ask. I am saying this because although opening up to someone can be very hard to do, I really think it would benefit you in this situation. Talking to someone about everything going on really helps and is a lot healthier than holding it all inside of you. Anxiety is really just what happens when you have so much going on in your life and keep everything to yourself. Take some of the pressure off yourself and just let it all out.

Try meeting your roommates ahead of time so you won't be as nervous. Go out to dinner with them or if they live far away, call them up! You can talk about interests, music, food, whatever! I'm sure once you get to know these people a little better you won't be as scared for college. Even though you may not think of it, EVERYONE is going to be nervous to go to college. It's your first time living away from home (most likely) and a whole new place. It's ok to be nervous just don't worry about having an anxiety attack. If you think about it, that's just worring about worrying! Stay strong. We are all here for you. If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me.

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Re: im dun - January 28th 2010, 01:03 AM

You are never alone, things always get better no matter how tough they may seem at the time. You may feel like you aren't strong enough to take this, but you are. You can do this, you can come out of this a stronger person, and as you go through life, the drama only makes you stronger so every other little thing doesn't bother you at all anymore, and you'll become happier because good things will start to happen and the bad times will come and go and only seem like a bad memory, nothing but. Your life will get better but if you give up, you never gave yourself a chance. You don't know what you could become, who you could meet, what great things lie in await for you to take.
   
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Re: im dun - January 30th 2010, 07:37 PM

Don't be afraid and anxious. Just be calm and live your life. And also sometimes life is hard
but you just have to hold on. Just hold on.
   
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