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I don't understand... - February 20th 2010, 12:23 AM

Why am I so alone?...

I think i'm a good person... it's just that noone seems to want to be around me =(

what is it??? I don't even know what I can change... if I can even change anything.

Maybe it's just me. I'm there... i'm OK, but really what do I have to offer to anyone?

OK i get it... i'm not the most confident person at times. I guess people tend to want to be around people who are confident. but really? are people that judgemental that they only want to be around people who act like kings all the time?

Im sorry for not making much sense, im just a bit upset right now =/

In my mind... im a decent person... I have flaws... whatever. but I think im OK.
then how come I dont fit in anywhere?

there just seems to be no room anywhere for the kind of person I am.
See i'm quiet and not the most outgoing at times. But I care... i really do.
it's always my problem. never yours. I WANT to get close to you, but I just dont know how.

I just... I don't know what i'm doing wrong...
Sorry... i'm lonely
I don't want to be like this =\
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Re: I don't understand... - February 20th 2010, 09:17 AM


Chances are you have met the wrong people. Because to tell you the truth.. actually quiet people tend to have positive traits and good things that noisy "i'm so happening " people don't . You need to get out there, and meet more people. Chances are that You'll eventually find a group of people that are definitely more than happy to be around you and then share happy memories, smiles, and happy things together with you.

Don't let this bad experience get you down, curt. You're definitely a better person than those people think you are. You gotta bounce back from it!

get into more situations which involve more interaction . chances are in your favour because there are so many kinds of people in this world, and there's definitely going to be people who will be very happy around. you.

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Re: I don't understand... - February 20th 2010, 11:59 AM

It sounds like you've got into a group with the wrong sort of people, probably the confident ones right? there are other really shy people out there like you as well, I know I'm a shy person myself and now I have a great group of friends even though there not very confident either.
You're not alone in anyway and there are probably people near you thinking the same thing as you are right now, get out go to some events, join some clubs at school or something maybe? anything to meet some new people, trust me you'll have some new friends in no time

'Cause there's no pride to be found when you follow sheep around..

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Re: I don't understand... - February 23rd 2010, 01:26 AM

I am exactly as you are. Exactly the same way.

But one thing I realized is that many people in this age are just not worth the trouble. You may want to get to know them but you might not fit in with them. And besides if they don't like you just the way you are then they are not worth the trouble. And many people in this age are like that.

I am very introverted.

But I am in the same boat you are in. It just isn't the time yet to make a trustful friend of this time. But the time is coming when you shall have friends. Though you are lonely, in a while you won't be.

I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.
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