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I thought this was over. - March 20th 2010, 11:55 PM

For a few months now, I've been happier than I have in years. I regained contact with old friends, got out of the house more, and had loads of confidence. It's crazy how everything can change within a day. I only have two good friends who I can tell anything to, one of which I made plans with. When I finished high school, I was going to go across the country to move in with her, but just the other day she told me she would be moving to another state to be with her boyfriend. It all came crashing down last night when the other friend said she was mad at me, and wouldn't tell me why. I continue to ask her, but she keeps telling me to figure it out for myself. I can't figure it out, because nothing in my life has changed. She doesn't care. She won't talk to me.

Now I'm left with that feeling again. The feeling that I have no one to help me through anything. I was happy because I'm returning to school in a week, and I thought, "Hey, this will be better. There's nothing to break down about this time." But now there is. I don't want to go back to being that person who dreads getting out of bed in the morning, who constantly feels like crying, who doesn't want anything to do with anyone. But I've already become that person in the course of a day, and I feel like it's not going to stop for a while.


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Re: I thought this was over. - March 21st 2010, 05:46 PM

Hey there Courtney. Sometimes when we make a new start it goes well, but sometimes the new starts are disturbed by some incidents. And this is common but you can't let that new start be ruined because of what has happened.

You can try and keep talking to your friend more and even think more on the matter as to why she is angry at you, it may have been something rather small but had an enormous effect emotionally. If there isn't anything you can think of then just tell her that you really don't understand what you did and she can explain to you so that you can know.

Summary : You started well, don't let that good start be ruined by this feeling. Go on and live life(in a well manner of course) and enjoy.


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