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excuses - March 29th 2010, 07:29 AM

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i am the worst person ever

i've underestimated a subject and now i failed it. i'm going to get dropped from my honors program from some stupid subject i failed without thinking which isn't even remotely related to what major im taking!

i feel so bad. and i can't take the shame....last time this happened....my parents ignored me for months...and now that i've finally proven i'm anything worthful this happens...

i dont want to die...but...this is better than anything i have to go through again to make them love me....

i hate myself. i'm so stupid...
   
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Re: excuses - March 29th 2010, 07:51 AM

Hey there.

You shouldn't hate yourself, and you're not stupid. Just because you failed a subject doesn't mean everything's over. Can you try talking to your parents about it? They shouldn't ignore you just because you didn't do as well as you'd hoped for.

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Re: excuses - March 29th 2010, 11:06 AM

that's the problem. i can't. i'd rather die than talk. coz they will hurt and ignore me to wit's end and i cannot take that anymore
   
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Re: excuses - March 29th 2010, 01:24 PM

hey hun, instead of thinking that failing automatically means that you're stupid, maybe try thinking about what really happened and if you could do anything to save that grade? (:
i'm quite sure you're smart! you're in university by the sound of it? try to give yourself a second chance. you've a lot of time ahead of you. you can try for the program again? or maybe in future you'd look back and see that being dropped from it wasn't such a bad thing after all..
just hope that put some perspective on things. (: don't be so hard on yourself coz you're a person who has every right to live and try to live it to the fullest. life doesn't and shouldn't end here coz you'd miss out on so much more (:



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