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Unhappy Depression hits again - April 11th 2010, 04:04 PM

Im so deprersses its annoying it started around the age of 13 and now im 14 and its so annoying because it came back....The reason why im getting this depressing thingy is because its like i want a girlfriend so bad i cant stop it and theres noone that i really want because of how they are inside i just want a girlfriend but i dont have one and that makes me depressed i cant stop it tought ive tried...Ive tried not to show my depression to my mom she would laugh like the bitch always does my friend noticed it tought and they asked my why are u so depressed and im like oh nothing thats just you...I need help guys its not easy
   
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Re: Depression hits again - April 11th 2010, 05:58 PM

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Im so deprersses its annoying it started around the age of 13 and now im 14 and its so annoying because it came back....The reason why im getting this depressing thingy is because its like i want a girlfriend so bad i cant stop it and theres noone that i really want because of how they are inside i just want a girlfriend but i dont have one and that makes me depressed i cant stop it tought ive tried...Ive tried not to show my depression to my mom she would laugh like the bitch always does my friend noticed it tought and they asked my why are u so depressed and im like oh nothing thats just you...I need help guys its not easy
Hi AntiX,

First off, I empathize with you. I am in a similar situation (though there may be minor differentials) and it feels like the depression has hit my core of my very being and I can't even think straight. Though there's various other occurrences in my life right now that are adding to this feeling.

Second, I would suggest talking to someone at school, preferably a counselor of some sort and explain to them about your mom, perhaps even more willingly then you are able to on here. I'm sure they can work something out.

Third, let me explain something to you. Humans are objects of love, we are designed, birthed, created, whatever you want to call it; to love. We cannot CREATE and we cannot DESTROY love. It's always existing. Right now you have love, but it's unused causing your depression. The problem is that the longer you don't use it, you will become more depressed and despondent seemingly so that you feel as if you cannot even so much as exercise love or daily routines. What you need to do is find SOMETHING (not necessarily someone) to love. You need to exert your love or it will on well up. You cannot destroy it, so don't try. You can only use it. Whether that be friends, movies, games, reading, anything. You NEED to exert a love for something and this will keep your mind occupied. We need to put love in something cause greater than ourselves as humans to be content, even if it's something that may seem inferior or minor.

I know it does not sound as pleasant as a girlfriend, but do not focus on that. Anything can be as pleasant as you want to make it, the problem is you have to make it pleasant and appealing for yourself. Eventually perhaps someone will come along and you can start imputing your love over to a person, but you NEED to find something NOW to love. I know it's difficult, but try it and see if things clear up as I'm certain they will. The worst you can do is nothing. Especially if you're introverted.
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