i NEED help right now, please please.

[adelina.rose]

i went out last night, took drugs, had sex, etc etc. while out clubbing, i bumped into my ex boyfriends sister, who i used to be great friends with. i used to also be in love with her. seeing her last night, made me fall for her again. what do i do? im still getting over her brother.

all i wanted to achieve by going out last night and doing all that, was to have a fun girly time, meet some new guys, and be happy. but it was beyond a disaster. please please help!!!

[Whisperer]

I think that you know exactly what to do without realizing it. Even though you were trying to have fun, it doesn't sound like it was the right kind of fun. Illegal and dangerous activities often lead to disaster. In the future try other safer things for a good time like a movie, bowling, mini golfing, safe activities that can make your day! Now I'm not saying this was all your fault at all. Things happen that we can't control and there's no way to change that. But there's ways to avoid it in the future. For now, I think you just need to try different things and find other guys/girls with similar interests that can help you get over the people you have seen in the past. I know how hard it can be to see ex's out with other people when you wish it was you, but try to think it's a good thing because they are having a good time. Rather than focus on all the negatives that night, focus on the positives like spending time with your friends, seeing people you haven't seen in a while, and getting out of the house! Be confident in yourself and don't let anybody ruin that.