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so easy... - June 18th 2010, 03:59 AM

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I been out of the closet with my parents for a few months, it has not work sense than. My parents treat me like a alien, no one is supporting me because I can't see my girlfriend at all. I was thinking at work on how easy it is just to end it all
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Re: so easy... - June 18th 2010, 04:58 AM

Dont worry about your parents. They can't tell you who to be, and it matters if you respect yourself. I also helped you on your other thread, so make sure to read it


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Re: so easy... - June 18th 2010, 05:10 AM

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I been out of the closet with my parents for a few months, it has not work sense than. My parents treat me like a alien, no one is supporting me because I can't see my girlfriend at all. I was thinking at work on how easy it is just to end it all

Heyy, I understand how you feel.

It was really hard on me obviously, but you also have to think have how it is for your parents, they've gone threw 19 years of raising you, and unless you gave them reasons, theres no reason to suspect anything, so when you come out, its a huge huge shock to them, so you gotta understand that while you have to adapt to the fact that they know, you also have to know that they're adapting to it to, and its a bigger change for them then it is for you.

Its going to be hard, and it may take some time for it to work out, but be confident and know that they just want whats best for you, and will support you, its just difficult for them, because if they act to differently around you, they may think you'll get upset. In reality, they are just doing the best they can to be supportive with out going overboard.

PS, is it them who won't let you see your girlfriend? pretty much disregard what i just wrote if its true.
   
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Re: so easy... - June 18th 2010, 08:45 PM

Just hang in there. Eventually they might give in and let you see your gf if you keep trying enough or are insistent enough that it isn't a phase. They're your parents, and as ridiculous as they're being now, deep down they must care at least a tiny bit. Try to make them see your way and don't give in.

Also soon you'll be pretty much old enough that they legally can't do anything to stop you anyway. Don't let the opinions of others get you down. Stick to what you want and believe in and don't give in. She's your gf, you love her and it's who you are and that wont change, be proud of it. You had the courage to come out, you can get through this too. Best of luck.


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