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i need help - June 28th 2010, 05:23 AM

hey i've been going through a lot lately and i have no one to go to. I have lost all of my friends and my boyfriend and i think my parents are going to get a divorce. I was a cheerleader in high school and every one thought i was so happy but on the inside i hate everything about myself and i don't want to be here anymore. I have struggled with depression for almost 5 years and i'm tired of it. I'm so tired of everyone telling me that i'm never good enough and that i'm a disappointment. My own grandparents and aunts and uncles don't even like who i am anymore. I feel like i have no where to turn to and no one to go to. I was in an abusive relationship with my boyfriend and it was not only physical but emotional. Ever since we broke up i have been a complete wreck. I feel like i am not worthy of anything. I really don't have any hope and this is kind of like my last straw.
   
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Re: i need help - June 28th 2010, 05:38 AM

Hey there. (:

Take a few deep breaths, that always helps me. Everything will be okay.

First off, you are better off without having an abusive boyfriend like that. A boy like that will only bring you down further. Boyfriends are supposed to lift you up when you feel down, and make you feel better. You deserve so much more than an abusive boyfriend.

You said you've been dealing with depression for five years; have you seen a doctor, or a therapist? Maybe they can help you with getting some anti-depressants, or at least just having someone to talk to.

You can message me anytime. I hope this helped. (:

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Re: i need help - June 28th 2010, 05:45 AM

i talked to my parents about seeing a therapist because it got so bad that they noticed that i just got to the point where i don't care about anything but they havent said anything since and its kind of embarrassing to me to go to them for help. And the whole boyfriend thing well i feel an attachment to him. I keep telling myself i'm in love with him because he's the only one i can go to for anything but now he just gets mad if i cry to him or try to go to him about stuff and i dont have anyone else and i dont know what to do.
   
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Re: i need help - June 28th 2010, 06:07 AM

I understand that you may still have feelings for him, but I'm betting it's feelings that you still have for the person he used to be. I think you should break up with him. It might be hard yes, but in the long run, I believe it would be so much better. He should be supportive of you, not always brushing you off when you try to talk to him when you are obviously upset.

And, maybe you could write your parents a letter? If I have to tell my dad about something I really don't want to talk about, or that's embaressing, I'll just leave him a short note, or a letter. You should let them know what's going on, and how you need some help with all of this.
   
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