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Unhappy whats wrong with me? - July 13th 2010, 02:59 AM

i feel so empty and depressed lately. i dont know why because things are better. but it seems all i can think about is how i lost almost all my friends and all they do is say things to hurt me. i feel so alone and scared to be alone. i hate how people get to me with thier words but they do. i dont know how to get over people being so mean! i cant take it anymore. its like im barely alive inside. can anyone relate or give any advice?
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Re: whats wrong with me? - July 13th 2010, 08:52 AM

I can relate to this as well, I lost all the friends I had except two, even the person I thought would never abandon me, did it. It hurt so bad, but I decided my life should change. I asked this friend who still called me and I started to go out with her group of friends. Now I've made friends with them.
You can try to meet new people, but you shouldn't go there thinking 'ugh, they won't accept me' or 'I don't fit', think they can accept you, and you'll be more likely to fit with them. Don't judge anyone before knowing them just try to enjoy with them.
You can do this, you don't lose anything trying it. You aren't alone, believe me, many people care about you.
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Re: whats wrong with me? - July 13th 2010, 05:58 PM

i understand completly,none of my friends are speaking to me because none of them completly understand me i lost them all one by one ,i have my bf still but i cant speak to him about the way i feel,i guess he doesnt understand me either, you can feel depressed sometimes for no reason at all,well a reason that you cant seem to figure out anyway,you say things are better, but id say your missing your friends ,thats probly why your not feeling to great or it could be another reason that your mentally blocking out,you should try seaking to your friends and see if they'll apologise and if that doent work move on and make new friends,just hang in there, good luck,
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Re: whats wrong with me? - July 13th 2010, 06:26 PM

Hey Becca.

I definitely know where you're coming from. Last year a few of my friends ditched me when I was just starting to deal with depression, and it definitely hurt me that they suddenly just weren't there. Then I came to TH and I learned what the real definition of friend is.

Friends don't leave you and hurt you like that, and if they do they were never your friends to begin with. And you shouldn't let them get to you if they're not your friends. There's going to be a lot of idiots who hurt you in life, and you can't become depressed every time you get hurt by another person; you'll be depressed 24/7.

I used to let people hurt me to the point where I was considering suicide because of them, but the truth is that no one has the power to control the way you feel unless you let them. Just because your friends turn on you doesn't mean you have to be depressed or angry with them. You can choose to not let it bother you this much, even though it might seem difficult to do so. You don't need to let this depress you as much as it has, and you shouldn't.

You'll learn what real friends are sometime in your life, and you'll realize that these people you're upset over were never worth your time to begin with. You deserve real friends, and eventually you will find them. Just hang in there.

Feel free to PM me anytime.

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Re: whats wrong with me? - July 14th 2010, 03:34 PM

thanks guys. its nice to have people who care.
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