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Unhappy i cant do this. - August 5th 2010, 12:35 AM

i want to die, i hate my life and everything about it. why cant i just be happy for once? its like this 'God' hates me, that or he doesnt exist. i feel like shitt, i jut want to end it all. last night, after 9 months, i was so close to cutting myself again. i was soo hurt. im in love wit these two guys and they hate eachother, i just cant choose, i love the both so much. its so hard! i just want this drama to go away! either that or i will
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Re: i cant do this. - August 5th 2010, 02:40 AM

Becca,

Killing yourself will not solve anything. I know that you are in pain right now but with time things will get better and if you kill yourself you won't be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

You are having trouble deciding between these two boys and I am wondering why that is? What do you like about each boy that is making it hard? Do you think if you sat down and wrote about it and maybe did a pros and cons list for both relationships you could figure it out?

Don't feel pressured to choose either. If you really cannot choose maybe you should just take a step back for a while. Sometimes we all need to step away from the relationships in our lives and reevaluate them and maybe that is what you need to do with this relationship.

Taking a step back can be hard but it might help you figure things out and get on with your life.

This problem you are having is not permanent; sooner or later it will work itself out. Killing yourself would be a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Relationships are definitely confusing and make things hard but over time they work out one way or another. Hang on until that happens.

I hope this helped and if you need anything feel free to pm me.

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Re: i cant do this. - August 6th 2010, 04:45 AM

Becca don't worry everything will be ok. I am saying this because everyone, yes I mean everyone has experienced the feeling of being "torn" in life. It's human nature. It takes more energy to be stressed than to be relaxed, try this... For one hour blindfold yourself, see how hard it is for others, but how lucky you really are. Be happy Becca life is beautiful only if you want it to be


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