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No hope left... - August 30th 2010, 09:02 PM

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It's not fair. Why do I always suffer? Why did Elise have to choose someone else before I could tell her how much I loved her? It's too late now. They're in love, and I'm alone. Always am, always will. It's not fair. I lost the girl of my dreams, I can't cheer up about it, and that in turn is making it impossible for other girls to like me. I want Elise. I need her. I have no life without her. It's not fair!!!!!!! D'X
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Re: No hope left... - August 30th 2010, 09:45 PM

It really, truly sucks to have lost someone that important to you (especially if you feel you could've altered the outcome). But life goes on. Many people have been in similar situations; oftentimes the one you love doesn't love you back or wants to be with someone else for now. I don't mean to trivialize the pain that stems from that experience, but there's a lot of beauty of possibility in the world aside from her. You will probably (very, very probably) meet someone else later in life (even within the next few years) for whom you care at least as much. And maybe she'll choose you. The point is: others have been through this pain and come out of it. It sucks, but it's definitely not the end of your (love) life.

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Re: No hope left... - September 1st 2010, 07:50 AM

Hey,

Maybe she just found someone else who she found she really liked. That sort of stuff happens in life. It doesnt mean you cant find somebody else, or even have a relationship in the future, if her current relationship has gone wrong. Dont worry about it, you'll find someone. It takes time.

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Re: No hope left... - September 1st 2010, 10:30 PM

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You will probably (very, very probably) meet someone else later in life (even within the next few years) for whom you care at least as much. And maybe she'll choose you.
No... No girl will choose me... I'm not hot enough... And I don't want anyone else... I WANT ELISE!!!!! D'X
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Re: No hope left... - September 2nd 2010, 12:57 AM

I have a question: did you exist before you met this girl Elise? I have a hard time imagining that you had "no life" before her. Therefore I can foresee you being able to pick up the pieces and move forward after her.

Sitting on the sidelines while someone you really care about falls for someone else can be hard. I had that happen a fair number of times when I was younger. It was awful, especially since many of the young men those young ladies chose were closer to the asshole end of the spectrum.

Despite how you feel right now. You can move on. People will tell you this to no end.

"You'll meet someone else."
"There are plenty of fish in the sea."
"You'll care about someone else."

In my experience, you probably will not listen to those. We grow in emotional capacity as we get older. The love we feel in the here-and-now can seem to greatly overshadow anything we've ever felt before. Therefore, logically, all of those statements are irrelevant; they cannot be right. However, later in life we are surprised to find out that we can love again and that we love this new individual more than we've loved anyone, ever.

As to the comment you made about not being hot enough. If that were the only determining factor that people used to find significant others we would be living in a dark and shallow world. Luckily, a lot of the really interesting and lively individuals measure people based on all of their merits. So don't worry and don't put yourself down.



   
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Re: No hope left... - September 3rd 2010, 12:10 AM

:') Wow... You all were right... I found a girl who's sweeter and more loveable than Elise... Miracles really DO happen! X'D This new girl is like an angel. If only you all could see her status on Facebook. This girl really loves me... :')
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Re: No hope left... - September 3rd 2010, 03:19 PM

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:') Wow... You all were right... I found a girl who's sweeter and more loveable than Elise... Miracles really DO happen! X'D This new girl is like an angel. If only you all could see her status on Facebook. This girl really loves me... :')
Congratulations! I am glad things are going very well for you.



   
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Re: No hope left... - September 3rd 2010, 03:59 PM

why dont you tell her how you feel it might not help but if i had someone who cared about me that much i would want to know and be with them so just tell her ya i know it will be hard but it might work youll nevr know if you dont try




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