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Question self sabotage - August 31st 2010, 09:15 PM

sorry if this isn't the right place for this topic, i'm not sure where it should go

um...hi, this is my first post-wait no second! and i'm not very good at expressing things so i'm really sorry if this makes no sense but there is something i kinda need help with

um... okay, so recently, like in the last couple of months, i have been feeling really good, i feel like i am finally getting my life back on track and i have gained some confidence and i found me again which felt so good, but it's getting to the time of year, that for the last 2/3 have been really crap because i was depressed and had bad anxiety, and although i tried a few times to pick myself up and move on it never worked out.

last year i finally got help from a therapist and although everything went wrong last year too, she helped me, she said something that hit home when i gave up last time, she suggested it was probably because there was nothing at the end of the programme so i had nothing to look forward to and no motivation, anyway early this year i finished thereapy and felt a lot less anxious, then i started this programme called e2e(which is a 22 week programme for 16-18 year olds who have no quals, little confidence, don't know what they wanna do etc) i am leaving the programme tomorrow and thanks to them i feel more confident and secure than in so long and i feel like i am actually looking forward to the future.

anyway i start college next week and in the last couple of days i have been really moody, upset, anxious and not wanting to start college because i am predicting it will not work out, i know i will be unhappy, i won't make any friends and i'll probably end up quitting and i'm scared. i don't know why i am getting myself in this state and setting myself up for disaster, alls i know is if i quit this time i know i'll get depressed and i don't think i could handle that all over again.

i'm not really sure what i am asking you here for guys, just a bit of support or advice maybe, anyway thankyou so much for reading this and thankyou even more if you can help me .

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Re: self sabotage - August 31st 2010, 09:20 PM

Well, you've conquered other things in life, and college is just another hurdle to get over.

When I had started college, I was SO SCARED. I didn't know anyone, it was a big, intimidating campus, I had no idea what to expect, and I suck socially as is. But, after I got the hang of it, things got better. Once my classmates started talking to me, I felt at ease.

So, I guess you just gotta go out there, put your best foot forward, and keep your chin up.


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