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Unhappy why - September 2nd 2010, 04:17 PM

why is life like living in hell i hate it i feel like dieing my parents dont care they wouldnt take me to the hopsitol wen i had a 102 fever and i felt dizzy and sick went to bed hoping not to wake up cuz it would of been there fault if i died i puposly made my self sick to test them to c if they cared they didnt i dont know what to do i sick still and nowhere to go in life




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Re: why - September 2nd 2010, 04:40 PM

Hey there,

I know how it is to not have a lot of familial support. My parents were a lot like that and in some ways it has gotten worse now that I am older. However, I promise you can make it through and find people that care about you. I didn't ever think I would have anyone but my family in life and that always made the fact that they couldn't/wouldn't support me really hard. But, recently I was able to find some friends and it helped. I know that they really care about me and they are there to support me. They give me some of the emotional support I cannot get from my parents. It took a long time to find these people and I still am saddened by my families inability to be there for me but I am slowly making it through and so can you. You do not deserve this type of treatment and I am sorry that your parents cannot realize that but take care of yourself so that you can have a full happy and healthy life one day.

You said that you are still sick so I really wish you would look into going to the doctor. Your parents may not want to take you but you can take care of yourself. You deserve to be healthy and to have someone there for you. Right now your parents cannot do that but you can. Take care of yourself, nurture yourself, you deserve that. The first step to moving on from the pain of not having the support you need is to start taking care of yourself.

Now, I am wondering if there is anyone else you can go to for support? Friends? Other family members? Teachers? I know that it is hard to reach out to others when you are struggling especially when your own parents don't seem to care. However, don't let that stop you because there are going to be people who do care about you.

Also, have you considered looking into therapy? I know that has helped me immensely. I have someone who is objective, understanding and caring and it helps quite a bit. When I go to my therapist I truely do feel cared for.

I hope this helps and if you need anything feel free to pm me.

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Re: why - September 3rd 2010, 05:50 PM

hey corrina, how're you doing now? has your fever gone down and stuff? maybe you can tell us more about what's bothering you?
like jenna said, you got to take care of yourself if no one will do it for you and we can't choose our family though it's still true that what they do or don't do (especially parents) affect us a lot...
so yup, maybe you can rant here? (: we're here to listen



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