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Unhappy Help... - September 11th 2010, 01:42 AM

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My life is just getting worse every day. Nothing seems to be getting better for me. My mom hardly cares about me. She thinks I'm lying about certain things when I'm not. I don't even think she wants me anymore since I always have to beg her to make me doctor's appointments and stuff about y health. I really just want to die. Ever since my boyfriend died, things just get worse. He's not here to help me get through this. I just want someone to care about me and help me through this. I have no reason to be here. I feel like I'm not worth it. I really don't know how much more I can take. I'm trying my best to stay here and be happy, but it doesn't seem like it's not going to work. I really need someone to help me before I do something I'm going to regret


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No one believes me about anything. That goes to show I'm not worth it anymore
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Re: Help... - September 11th 2010, 01:46 AM

Things can get better sweetie.

Stay strong, you're seventeen - almost old enough to get out on your own and make your own doctor's appointments. I'm sure your mom cares about you... sometimes they just don't show it that well.

If you would like to talk, please PM me.. It's so great you're reaching out for help.


I may not have all the answers, but I'm a really good listener. PM me anytime, I'm always looking to meet people!
   
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Re: Help... - September 11th 2010, 01:50 AM

I really don't think she cares about me. I shouldn't have to get on her nerves about my body pains and everything else. Nothing is going to get better for me. She won't even help me find a job. I know I'm almost an adult, but she doesn't have to treat me like this..


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Re: Help... - September 11th 2010, 01:57 AM

Things can seriously get better. NO ONE is ever, ever worthless. Not in a million years!
Re: your sig: I believe you...I believe you about a lot of things. You've never lied to me

I think you're totally awesome. PM me if you want to talk.


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Re: Help... - September 11th 2010, 02:02 AM

I don't see how things are gonna get better with my mom being like this towards me. I'm trying to fix my life and do everything I can to be happy, but I can't do that with the crap that's going on now. You might believe me about everything Chris, but some people don't. I just need someone to care about me and help me


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Re: Help... - September 11th 2010, 07:10 AM

But we're saying that we care and we want to help you! Okay...so it's not the same as having someone you know personally. But it's a start, for sure!


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Re: Help... - September 11th 2010, 08:20 AM

You can always PM me aswell, i went through a bad patch like this but it wasnt as tragic as my boyfriend dieing it was my boyfriend beating me up but things sound the same. My mum was exactly the same, i was emotional un staible because i loved him so much but there was nothing i could do! And i felt like i had nobody


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Re: Help... - September 12th 2010, 12:25 AM

That sucks that you went through this. Give it some time and keep working hard and things will be better. If your mom doesn't care about you, so be it. There will always be other people who care about you, even if it seems like there's nobody. You just gotta open up to other people. Be careful who you open up to though. Some people are pricks.

Anyway, hope you'll feel better and get through this. Promise to never hurt yourself.
   
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Re: Help... - September 12th 2010, 07:37 PM

You're only 17; You have your whole life ahead of you..

But i know what you're going through. Depression has taken over my life.. ALL my life. It IS a constant struggle but ever since i had my biological daughter, i feel i have something to live for. Now I'm not saying you should go and get yourself pregnant but I'm just trying to help.


I used to live with my ex bf [Who's also the father of my child] and all we did was argue with each other. Every time we argued and all that, i cut myself. I ended up in the hospital's psych-ward in Fort Walton Beach, Florida for three days one of the ladies that did a group therapy thing, suggested everyone start writing how they feel in a journal. I did that a few times and started to semi feel better [Granted i was taking depression pills as well] And the only thing that was making my depression worse WAS the pills.

Basically what I'm suggesting is that you go to therapy for the depression or start writing in a journal. If you do the journal.. i also suggest that you NEVER re-read what you've written because it may trigger something in your head and make you depressed all over again, which isn't good for anyone.

Maybe you don't want to do either.. I honestly don't know because i don't really know you but if you ever need to talk about ANYTHING.. you are MORE than willing to send me a message on here, I'm a good listener and always willing to help someone if they need/want it.

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Re: Help... - September 19th 2010, 10:28 PM

You said it for yourself: you're going to regret following through with whatever I'm sure you want to do right now. Trust me that things can and will get better. You're mom seems to be a bitch and you need to realize that her not being involved in helping you just goes to show that you're above her and that she's not worth the thoughts that depress you.

I'm still sorry about your boyfriend, but he wants nothing more than for you to keep on living and to move on and live the life you deserve. I know grieving sucks utterly and sometimes it seems like being numb or dead even will make it all better, but life can't be happy without the sad and, optimistically, visa versa.

And about you being worthless, why would a dozen random strangers be helping you if we didn't think you were worth the effort? <3


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