Depressed afterwards?

[UltraViolet]

Ok, so i have a big history of depression and anxiety and yes I'm getting some sort of help for that. Plus I'm on medication.
I'm nearly 21 and never really 'done anything' with anyone.
And now, I'm in a complicated relationship with a girl, who already has a girlfriend

Anyway, does anyone else ever feel depressed after sex?
Like, staring into space, cant really think about anything in particular, u just feel out of it and down about 'things'.
And it takes a fair while to 'pull' yourself out of it and too communicate properly?

xx

[Daydreamer]

I usually don't feel that way after sex. After sex I feel very close to my boyfriend and very relaxed. But I think that given the circumstances you've stated, it is perfectly normal to be feeling that way. I'd imagine you are probably caught up on the fact that the girl you are seeing is with someone else, and the relationship is complicated which leads to you thinking, or feeling down after sex. I would take a moment next time when you're feeling this way after sex and reflect on what types of feelings you're having at that time, and talk to your counselor, or even the girl you're with if you two have that type of relationship. If that still doesn't help if I were you I'd take some time to reflect on the nature of the relationship, are you really okay with how complicated it is? And decide if there is anything you can do about it.

Hope this helps,
Megan