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today - November 12th 2010, 01:49 PM

Today was suppose to be a good day for me. I get my cast off. But instead I lost my best friend last night. And don't know if I want to continue. Im just so depressed
   
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Re: today - November 12th 2010, 02:12 PM

Oh sorry to hear that. You will get through this. Just dont give up.!!

Hey, are you sure you lost your friend? In the past I have thought the same, but ended up having a heart to heart talk with them..and things got straightened out. Just turn out to be a mis-understanding. So try it

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Re: today - November 12th 2010, 02:19 PM

Mary,

You should definitely continue. You live life for yourself. I truly believe where you lose someone, you find another. Give yourself more time. To live or die at this age is such a big decision. It is at any age really. There are people who care about you. Just because you lost her..doesn't mean everything before is washed away. That's what I can say. Is be happy it happens when you're so torn up that it ended. It'll get you through, until you can heal? Or something can help. But don't give up. It's not worth everything in the future you could lose.


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Re: today - November 12th 2010, 02:36 PM

Mary darling

You are such a wonderful person and you have such a long life ahead of you. I'm so sorry that you lost your best friend. Is there any way you could have a chat with her about what happened? You have all of us here on TeenHelp.
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Re: today - November 12th 2010, 04:20 PM

Please continue and dont give up. And talking is the best way to sort things out.




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Re: today - November 14th 2010, 01:59 AM

Hey hugs
I'm sorry, sometimes what seems to be a good day will be terrible. Please don't give up because of this. I'm not sure if you meant you lost your best friend as a friend or more, but either way, what would your friend want you to do? Would they have wanted you to be depressed/take your life? We are here to help you so if you need anything please don't hesitate, everyone is happy to help here.
You are 13, so you haven't lived your life yet. There is a lot more to life that you haven't experienced yet, so please don't think about taking your life. Unfortunately, death is a part of life, you will experience losing someone. If you meant you lost your best friend as a friend, that is part of life as well. The beauty of this world is that where ever you go, there is always someone that cares.
Please talk to us and consider talking to a counselor too.
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Re: today - November 14th 2010, 02:09 AM

mary , . we're always going to be here for you..

your friend would definitely want you to be happy. Remember, those who love us.. NEVER , ever , truly leave us.

remember, we are always going to be here for you . thats never gonna change either.


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Re: today - November 14th 2010, 06:06 PM

Yes Mary... i am sure your friend, who loves you ,definatley wants you to be happy and carry on.




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Re: today - November 15th 2010, 03:06 PM

Thanks everyone. Wish I knew what to say. I feel so stupid. I got counseling and medication over the weekend. I haven't spoken to her yet, because I was admitted on Friday and everything was taken from me. The doctors said that due to my situation I was a time bomb waiting to explode and I did. I was all my fault. I am so sorry. I am so sorry.
   
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