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Exclamation I really need your support guys - November 28th 2010, 05:55 AM

My ex hates me and has pretty much turned all my friends against me. I didn't even do anything. Anyways, if you guys could just let me know you care it would really be much appreciated. I know it sounds stupid, but I just need to know that somewhere out there, someone cares. I know not many of you know me too well right now. I love you all, truly, as you have gotten me this far. Finding Teen Help was a miracle.


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Re: I really need your support guys - November 28th 2010, 07:23 AM

Hey hugs.
Crap happens, but of course someone cares!!!! I'm sorry that your ex did that, maybe pull one person aside sometime and ask why they hate you or what your ex said. You'll find better friends too that will absolutely be there no matter what, you are still young and you never know what will happen.
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Re: I really need your support guys - November 29th 2010, 12:40 PM

A similar thing has happened to me.

My boyfriend broke up with me last week because I was causing a lot of arguments but this was due to my depression.

Even though he broke up with me everyone has turned against me and I am the one who is feeling terrible and guilty.

I spoke to a few of them who were kind of neutral and they helped but for now I am staying away from the situation. I am focusing on my college work and keeping on top of that now instead of worrying about this.

Try talking to them and let them know that this is not their place to get involved as it is between you and your ex and then if they still act like this then leave them alone. They might calm down after a while and realise how pathetic they are being and if they don't then they aren't worth your time and upset.
   
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Re: I really need your support guys - November 29th 2010, 12:45 PM

I know how this feels.

For now, I'd say just leave it and maybe if you see one of your friends on their own go up and ask them about it. If they want to take sides then that's their decision and obviously they're not very good friends to you if they're going to do that.

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Re: I really need your support guys - November 29th 2010, 11:40 PM

Don't worry! someone always cares! and thats horrible that your bf did that :/
   
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Re: I really need your support guys - November 30th 2010, 03:30 AM

Thank you so much guys. I'm so glad I joined this site


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Re: I really need your support guys - November 30th 2010, 07:24 AM

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Unhappy Re: I really need your support guys - December 7th 2010, 12:18 PM

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A similar thing has happened to me.

My boyfriend broke up with me last week because I was causing a lot of arguments but this was due to my depression.

Even though he broke up with me everyone has turned against me and I am the one who is feeling terrible and guilty.

I spoke to a few of them who were kind of neutral and they helped but for now I am staying away from the situation. I am focusing on my college work and keeping on top of that now instead of worrying about this.

Try talking to them and let them know that this is not their place to get involved as it is between you and your ex and then if they still act like this then leave them alone. They might calm down after a while and realise how pathetic they are being and if they don't then they aren't worth your time and upset.



look at me.....ive had worse than you guys have.......i dont ven know if hes still my boyfriend anymore.....i havent seen him since i answered him on march 26,2010 and we havent had any communication cause his family moved.....and right now were supposed to be going nine months now.....but i dont know if has still my bf......
   
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Re: I really need your support guys - December 7th 2010, 02:50 PM

Nicole. I care and I love you! This is NOT a stupid post at all. I am so glad I saw your post. I completely understand about wanting to know someone, anyone cares. Especially with going through what you are going through at the moment. Finding TH has really helped me too. I know I am not alone and that people do care. I hope things get better for you really soon.
   
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Re: I really need your support guys - December 7th 2010, 11:20 PM

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Nicole. I care and I love you! This is NOT a stupid post at all. I am so glad I saw your post. I completely understand about wanting to know someone, anyone cares. Especially with going through what you are going through at the moment. Finding TH has really helped me too. I know I am not alone and that people do care. I hope things get better for you really soon.
Aww thanks this made my day


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Re: I really need your support guys - December 8th 2010, 01:37 AM

I think I could speak on behalf of everyone on TH saying that we do care. Hang in there.


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