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I don't even know what to say anymore... - December 3rd 2010, 10:44 PM

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My friend is going to kill herself.
And I know there is nothing I can do to stop her, nothing I can do when I am over here in Connecticut and she's in California.
I have considered suicide but have talked myself out of it before. I realized I could never.
The two of us both have SH problems.
The thing is, she wants to kill herself as soon as possible, and I have run out of words to say and am about ready to give up on trying to talk her out of it. She has a rope in her bedroom she can use to die.
If I don't hear from her in two or three days, I know she is dead.
Even though she hates life and I'd feel selfish not letting her die, I want her to live.
And I know it would hurt me inside every day I can't talk to her.
What should I do?
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Re: I don't even know what to say anymore... - December 3rd 2010, 11:53 PM

If you have made efforts to stop her, call the emergency services in her area, or the suicide hotline for more information as to deal with this very urgent issue.
Right now, it is no longer a matter of words, but physical action. That is the one thing most likely to save her now.
If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.

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Re: I don't even know what to say anymore... - December 4th 2010, 12:25 AM

Try and call some emergency services in her area if you think she is going to do it immediately.

Be sure to try and talk to her a lot, and make sure she knows you love her and that i would hurt you inside if she were to commit suicide. Make sure she knows someone cares about her.

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