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Unhappy Here I go again. - December 16th 2010, 09:13 AM

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So I'm going through a really rough time at the moment. I got a really bad mark for my exams but I'll be able to take a pathway course that will allow me to get into University. But it's like this constant ache in my heart and in my stomach knowing that I didn't achieve as good as everyone else.
Then there's this guy who I like and who likes me back. He has a girlfriend but says he has stronger feelings for me then he has for his own girlfriend. I know that he's a jerk and that he's pulling me along but I can't help the way I feel about him. He said he wants to have sex with me but I don't want to...not with him anyway.
Then there's this other guy that I like. I'm so confused because I'm not sure if he likes me or not. We used to go to the same Primary School but haven't spoken or seen each other because we went to different High Schools. I added him a few weeks ago on Facebook and we've been just chatting and catching up since we hadn't spoken or seen each other in roughly 6 years. We just joke around and just talk a lot. We would both start off the conversation so it just won't be me all the time. And today he messaged me on Facebook asking me how I went in the exams. I asked him if he wanted to catch up sometime since I hadn't seen him in so long and he said yes. But I don't want to be always starting the conversation everytime he's online because I feel like I'm annoying him. I just don't know what to do.
I'm just so depressed and angry that I just want to kill myself. I really am hurting and feel so worthless.



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Re: Here I go again. - December 23rd 2010, 05:37 PM

You might feel this way now, but trust me. Don't give up on life when things get hard. Life is always worth living. You have found Teenhelp. So you know that you need help. Take this seirously.
1) In knowing you need help make a list of all the things that you will live for. (FORGET ABOUT THE BAD THINGS)
2)Just because you got a bad mark for your exams doesn't mean you can't fix it.
3)By saying you'll never achive as good as anyone else that just makes you not try. Instead of saying that say: "I might have a hard time now, but it will be my time to shine soon."
4) Even though you like this guy tell him: "You might love me more than your girlfriend, but I can't love you unless you brake up with her."
5) You DO NOT HAVE TO have sex unless you are ready. You can't be pressured into it. Sex is not something you should just throw away for one guy that you "like" Give it to someone you love.
6)Talk to this guy. If you guys are friends then he'll understand that you seem to feel like you are annoying him with everything you send him. Call him. Wait for him to message you. But don't waste all you time on this.
7)No one is worthless. Everyone gets confused some of the time. But don't end your life over some bad times. Life is worth living and you should talk to someone. Tell them how you are feeling. Maybe a conselor? Preist of your church (if you go to one)? A Friend or family member you can trust?

I am sure that someone will be upset that you had commited suscide. Life is always worth living. Live the life. And know that your friends, family members, and people here at teen help are here for you.
   
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