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Unhappy Emotions - February 25th 2011, 02:20 AM

I am feeling so many emotions right now. I feel sad, lonely, worthless and I feel like a failure. My friends and family call me a failure because I seem to fail at everything I do.

I am trying so hard to think positive but I can't. One of my friends isn't being very nice to me. She keeps on calling me rude names and she is telling my best friend that I am not allowed to be friends with her because she can only be her friend. This friend is making me really upset. i don't know what to do. I think that everything is all my fault. Why is she doing this to me. This friend is calling me a loser, stupid, ugly, fat and she says that I don't have any friends and that no one cares about me.

I just really think that giving up is the best thing I can do at the moment. I want to cut. I have wanted to for a while. I think it's all I can do and that no one would care if I was gone. Everyone would just be happy. Why am I feeling like this??

My parents also hate me. They keep hitting me and they keep on telling me that they wish I was gone. They don't love me and they just think I am stupid.

I am feeling so hurt. I have really low self-esteem and I want to (edit). I keep thinking about this and i have tryed to attempt it but failed. I feel like crying and all I want is for someone to actually care about me but noone does, not even my family or any of my friends. Everyone just wishes i was gone. I think that everything is all my fault.


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Re: Emotions - February 25th 2011, 03:31 AM

You are not worthless, you are not alone, and you are not a failure... I'm really sorry that anyone's ever said that to you. You don't deserve it at all.

Thinking positively can certainly be a challenge... I'd even go so far as to call it a talent. And like any talent, thinking positively takes practice... just try and be aware of when you're putting yourself down, and stop. Try your best to bring yourself up instead. That's something you do deserve.

As for your friend... I'd say that there's something essential missing there. We're all human, and we won't always have the most positive relationships possible with the people we associate with. But when someone calls you names and deliberately tries to hurt you or your relationships in any way, it's unfair, unkind, and unacceptable. Again, you don't deserve that, and there's nothing about this that's your fault... people can be extremely unkind, but their words and actions are in such cases are not a reflection of you, but a reflection on themselves. Hang in there<3. I really can't imagine why she would behave this way toward you, and I know that it's difficult, but try not to take it to heart. Things like this hurt, but there's no truth to them.

I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way... and I know that it's difficult to think straight when you're feeling so much at once, especially when you're feeling like giving up. But you have so very much to look forward to and so very many things that you can become. It's hard now, but this moment will pass. And as someone who's known and loved victims of suicide, I can promise you that the idea that anyone would be happy about that is, though a common thought, totally untrue.

Is there any adult at school or elsewhere that you trust? What's going on at home right now is absolutely unacceptable. I know that it can be incredibly scary reaching out for help, especially under these circumstances, but if they're hurting you in any way, you should know that you're in a situation that you need to get out of. Are you at all comfortable with your school counselor? I keep saying this, but it's true~ you don't deserve to be treated this way.

Again, I'm so sorry that you're feeling this way. But don't think that no one cares... I know that it's easy to feel that way sometimes, but think of it this way. Can you name any person (other than yourself right now) that you think that no one cares about? The thing about thinking that no one cares, is that those feelings are often geared towards yourself. For one, I care, and a lot. No way am I the only one. Hang in there... none of this is your fault, and know that I'm always here to talk if you ever need anything.
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Re: Emotions - February 25th 2011, 03:25 PM

YOU ARE A BLESSING!!!!!! Whoever keeps telling you otherwise is wrong. I'd say if your friends are treating you like that then they arn't your real friends. Don't waist time with them! Find some friends that love you for who you are. I'm willing to be one of them. You are not a failure. Besides sometimes not doing it right makes it better. I'm sure there is hundreds of things your good at. If your parents keep hitting you than maybe you should tell someone. I know its hard. I had to tell someone when my stepdad hit me. But now he is in counseling. He is still mean verbally, but im not even there most of the time. All because i told someone. You do not deserve what they have told you. You dont deserve any of it. You are a wonderful, beautiful, successful, all around amazing person. All because of this you are one of the strongest people I know also. I'm here if you want to talk. Go ahead and pm me any time hun. *HUGZ*
   
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Re: Emotions - February 25th 2011, 04:23 PM

You are awesome, beautiful, stunning and strong .. and don't believe differently

People say stuff like that just because they're jealous, and I wouldn't call someone like that a friend.

Talk to someone like a teacher .. and she can try to sort things out or maybe help you

I wish you the best of luck ... Stay Strong xx


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