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Question dreams - March 16th 2011, 10:11 AM

not sure whether this is in the right category or not, but wasn't sure where else to put it.
bit of background - had a bad year and a half relationship which ended badly and kinda fucked me up. it's coming up to two years since it was over and things are getting better but they're still not quite there. about 6 or so months ago i used to have these haunting dreams of my ex, she'd always come to me, play me about and she'd ALWAYS leave. they felt so real, that everytime i woke up i felt proper empty and horrible and it would effect my mood for the rest of the day. anyway time passed and eventually they stopped. but last saturday i went to a party, and well she was there. it was the first time i've seen her in like a year. it completely threw me off, and well since then i've started having the dreams again and i'm feeling generally shit about everything now. to add on to it, i'm about to get kicked out of college, i can't get a job, i've got no money and i'm smokin bud everyday. things aren't great, but having to think about her again is just making things even worse.
again, sorry if i posted this in the wrong section, just really didn't know anywhere else to write it


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Re: dreams - March 16th 2011, 10:36 AM

Do you have some sort of grudge with this person? Did you do something bad to them? Maybe you need to resolve it. You should talk with them. I believe that might solve your problem. I can understand how upset you must feel. It must be no fun having dreams like that. As I said before, my only guess is that you have something you need to resolve with this person. I don't know if you didn't end on good notes with them or not, but I would talk to them, in order to get it resolved. Also, with your other problems, everyone in life has them. If you have problems in school, talk to your counselor. If you have drug problems, join a drug group. If you can't find a job, just keep applying to anywhere you can, I'm sure you are going to get one very soon. If you still need to talk about it, you can. It sucks being depressed, and it sucks not being able to sleep peacefully. But hopefully, things will go better for you, and I hope they will.


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Re: dreams - March 16th 2011, 12:08 PM

thanks, i hope things work out in the end too! basically, i saw this girl pretty much every single day, so when things ended i was pretty gutted as it was one of the constant things of my life being taken away. she cheated on me more times than i'd care to count, but i took her back cos i loved her so much. then one day she turned round and told me she wants nothing more to do with me, so talking to her isn't really an option. it's taken so long for me to get where i am today, i never thought i'd make it this far, and now the dreams are happening again, so even when i'm asleep she's leaving me, in my own dream!! i struggled with depression and self harm for about four years now, but i've stopped cutting and am feeling a lot better, so i'm not sure whether the dreams are linked to it all or not.. just very confused more than anything!


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