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so much pain. - March 17th 2011, 10:29 AM

well about 4 days ago i attempted suicide. I poped half a bottle of advil, I'm lucky to be alive. And i know how much it hurt everyone around me. I don't wan't to kill myself I'm if in so much pain. me and my bestfriend after 4 years started dating, I knew everything about her. She did stuff that hurt me but i got over it. we dated for 3 years breaking up last year. it killed me, I felt like i was going to die. it took me six months to start to feel better ( and i dumped her :/ )

needless to say are relationship wasnt great but we loved one another. I still love her, but after 6 months when i was finally feeling better. And had even started seeing someone else. she got extreamly jealous i guess i started trying to get me back (and even though i dumped her i want'd this more then anything). So i fell for it, after a while we got distant again and it hurt but now i have nothning she play'd me and she's the only person i even could truly trust. It KILLS me knowing that she doesn't have romantic feelings for me anymore. and that she put me through getting over her twice. My life has gone to shit, and it's not just her. I don't know what to do or who to turn to.
   
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Re: so much pain. - March 17th 2011, 10:43 AM

im really close to the edge, ending my pain would cause her so much. But it will hurt everyone around me. I just can't take it anymore, I don't wanna be alone.
   
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Re: so much pain. - March 17th 2011, 11:23 AM

She isn't worth it. If you have problems with this person, don't' associate yourself with them. She is causing you more problems than benefit. You said yourself, there are people who would be devastated if you went along and did it. We would be very upset if you did it. So please don't. Especially if the main reason, is because of your problems with your ex girlfriend. If you need to talk about this, I'm here. We are all here to help you, but I don't want you to hurt yourself. Sometimes, we think of suicide as the easy way out. The solution to all of our problems. But it isn't. I think that you are an amazing person, who just got caught up in a really bad relationship. Now the consequences of that relationship, are still haunting you. I have faith that you are going to be able to overcome suicide. You don't need it. Just calm yourself down. Take deep breaths. Drink some water. Most importantly, don't see this girl. You need to end whatever you have with her. The both of you aren't working out. If you need to talk, we are here. Don't hurt yourself. If you want to talk through this, we are always open to listen.


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Re: so much pain. - March 17th 2011, 05:27 PM

i know how you must be feeling and this must be very difficult for you but i would advice to stop thinking about her (difficult but not impossible) as you only said you dont want to hurt anyone so dont take any serious steps.
   
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