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Unhappy Just want to feel better. - March 23rd 2011, 04:56 AM

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I can't take this anymore! I really can't! I just want to feel better but I can't. Everyone believes I'm ok but I'm not. I hate where I work (McDonalds) as they only give me negative feedback. I hardly hear them telling me what I've done right even though I've been working there for 3 years. Even though I may sound cocky when I sound this but I believe that I am hard-working and I always do what the managers and other employees wish for me to do. I try my hardest even though sometimes I make mistakes. They always tell me to hurry up or that I should do this or do that. I can't wait till I start Uni or to get another job so I won't have to work there much or at all. Since January I've been taxed over $500 even though I provided my tax file number. Now that my Dad spoke to the people who deal with tax, it's ok now.
I just don't feel anything anymore and it's just about work. It's about everything. I want to be a teacher but I know that I won't become one because I'm too stupid to get into Uni even though I've been accepted. All I'll be doing is working at McDonalds for the rest of my life.
I can never get other jobs even though I perform well at my trails.
I don't know what to do anymore.


   
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Re: Just want to feel better. - March 23rd 2011, 05:35 AM

I'm sorry your feeling so down noone should have to feel like this x
In regards to your job maybe they do tell you possitive things but you just dismiss them and ignore them as you don't agree. Often a lot of people do this and focus on the negatives. I'm sure they are lucky to have such a hard working, friendly and kind individual working for them
Everyone makes mistakes hun don't worry about it. They don't mean to be horrible when there telling you off, they are just trying to help you get better at your job try looking at it possitively. I know it's hard but we all need to try and be positive
If your really unhappy with your job start looking for another one. With your 3 years experience this can help you a lot so try and find a job you enjoy. You deserve to be happy x
You got into uni so your obviously very clever and capable of becoming whatever you want if you want to be a teacher go for it. You CAN do it!
Don't give up hun things will get better <3


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Re: Just want to feel better. - March 23rd 2011, 05:40 PM

First of all dont ever stope beliveing, its great that you know what you want to do. that puts you a step ahead of lots of others. Im really sorry that your feeling so down. Often employers and employees can give negative feedback, try not to take it to heart. instead look at it as constructive critiscm (dont take it out on yourself EVERYONE makes mistakes x) look at it of a way of getting even better. Your obviously very clever if you got accepted into university and you have to try your best to see the positive sides of what your doing. You have a long, bright future, you have a good, steady job at 18 again thats more than most. on top of that you have 3 years experience in a work place. dont put yourself down you can do it! x good luck at uni , hope you get your dream <3 pm me if you need anything else. you are worthy, your not stupid and see mcdonalds as an opportunity rather than a burden. your getting money, experience, social skills, you could get prommoted. ok? good luck xxx


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