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It's been getting worse... - March 28th 2011, 09:24 PM

Well, throughout my life I've had issues with my parents. Nothing I do is ever good enough for my dad. I'm not just assuming this either, he insults me on a daily basis. I guess its basically emotional abuse but it hurts. I constantly get accused of things that I didn't do and I'm punished for them.. I'm almost 17 by the way. Then on top of that I've never been able to keep friends. This has been going on my whole life. From elementary school I was constantly lied to and betrayed, and it only got worse once I moved. Whenever I thought I made a friend they'd end up betraying me and I'd be completely friendless once again. 8th and 9th grade were the worst. Last year(10th grade) was a little easier but my workload evened it out. I still lost people but I wasn't so affected. I also came out as being bi which caused more family issues because my dads a homophobe and has talked about me behind my back basically saying that it disgusts him. Then I fell for my guy best friend this year and lost him because of it...and I can't seem to get past it because I just really cared about him. So all of these issues are adding up, and over the years I've noticed a majority of the signs of depression, but I just feel like I can't tell my arenas because they wouldn't believe me, but I've just gotten to a breaking point...
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Re: It's been getting worse... - March 29th 2011, 12:11 PM

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Well, throughout my life I've had issues with my parents. Nothing I do is ever good enough for my dad. I'm not just assuming this either, he insults me on a daily basis. I guess its basically emotional abuse but it hurts. I constantly get accused of things that I didn't do and I'm punished for them.. I'm almost 17 by the way. Then on top of that I've never been able to keep friends. This has been going on my whole life. From elementary school I was constantly lied to and betrayed, and it only got worse once I moved. Whenever I thought I made a friend they'd end up betraying me and I'd be completely friendless once again. 8th and 9th grade were the worst. Last year(10th grade) was a little easier but my workload evened it out. I still lost people but I wasn't so affected. I also came out as being bi which caused more family issues because my dads a homophobe and has talked about me behind my back basically saying that it disgusts him. Then I fell for my guy best friend this year and lost him because of it...and I can't seem to get past it because I just really cared about him. So all of these issues are adding up, and over the years I've noticed a majority of the signs of depression, but I just feel like I can't tell my arenas because they wouldn't believe me, but I've just gotten to a breaking point...
Sorry for the long post, that was a semi-shortened life story
im soo sorry hun*cuddles*

i have been where you are before...i didnt feel like anything i did for my dad was good enough..he once told me that if i didnt pass my final exams that he would kick me out...another time he also told me that i didnt count that i didnt contrubite anything...

what does your mother have to say about this..does she know whats going on between you and your dad?...

your dad doesnt have the right to treat you that way..just because you are bisexual...its not okay....

you can always pm me ..if you need to talk

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Re: It's been getting worse... - March 30th 2011, 01:57 AM

Thanks
My dad knows how much it gets to him and it basically encourages him to do more. My mom knows and has threatened to move out and leave me and him alone because she can't deal with it.
But yeah, I have friends that arenas straight and if he finds out he ends up making fun of them right to my face because of it.
Thanks again though, I'll pm you sometime
   
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