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Unhappy Why must it always come back? - April 1st 2011, 02:03 PM

I've been on an anti-depressant for 2 or 3 months now? and it works great. Unless it's the week before my period. Once that time rolls around I start feeling anxious again, I start feeling like crying, I take everything that people say wrong and I feel like everyone is out to get me. I feel like nobody loves me or wants me, and i feel like I'm nothing but a burden.

And I HATE it. I just can't stand this. I LOVE being happy. I don't want to be depressed!!!!!!!!!

I have PCOS, which goes hand in hand with PMDD which causes that stupid annoying pain in my but week before my period to become a living hell. You've heard of PMS? THIS IS FAR WORSE. And I get so freaking depressed it's not funny.

I hate being this way, and I hate putting my fiancee through this and I hate how when I'm like this it make me feel like I'm putting a strain on my relationship. I KNOW that he loves me. I know that. I know that we are meant for each other. I know that. BUt when I'm like this, I feel like nobody loves me and nobody wants me and I become both needy and detached.

Like, I want him to hold me, and I want to be in his arms, because I feel safe there, and I feel loved. But then this other part of me doesn't want anything at all to do with him.

And I hate this. And i just don't know what to do.

And I don't want to tell him that I'm feeling this way again because I know that it stresses him out and he has enough stress to deal with and just uggggg.

I don't know what to do. =[

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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 3rd 2011, 05:03 PM

Call up your mommy (: Thats what i do when i get a feeling like this or go see a thearpists , they'll help you deal with this and tackle it head on before it damages anything.


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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 3rd 2011, 10:22 PM

Lol. I did actually call my Mommy. xD And I had a nice long talk with my fiancee. I got through it, and so far I've been okay. It was just one bad day instead a week like last month. Maybe that means I'm getting better. =] I hope so.

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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 3rd 2011, 11:16 PM

I don't know where you live, but here we have Midol. Not only is there the Midol for cramps though, but there is also Midol for the moodswings/PMS/etc.


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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 4th 2011, 02:11 PM

Midol has never worked for me. It sucks. But it's okay, I always get through it. I've actually been pretty okay after that day. Haven't had as many mood swings or anything. So that's promising. I just hope that it stays away.




   
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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 4th 2011, 02:25 PM

Did you try the Midol for mood swings though? It's a different formulation than the one for cramps. Here is some information, and it seems to be one of the treatment options for PMDD.


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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 4th 2011, 02:29 PM

Thanks for that info, I'll have to look into it. I just know from past experiences that midol has never helped me before, but maybe this stuff will be different. Thanks for your advice.




   
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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 4th 2011, 02:36 PM

No problem. Keep in mind, if it doesn't help, you COULD talk to your doctor, and maybe get something that is similar, but a bit stronger, or maybe a bit different? My sister uses the Midol PMS, because the regular Midol didn't help her cramps and stuff, and it works for her. So maybe it'll work better, I'm not sure. I can't guarantee, you just gotta try I guess.

If you have bad enough PMS symptoms, which I guess you do since you seem to have been diagnosed with PMDD (or PDD in other words), you can probably get some kind of prescription, or your doctor can give you ideas for medications that will work if this one doesn't.


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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 4th 2011, 02:44 PM

Yeah. I've actually been okay so far besides that one day. That was me in depressed and very upset mode. I've actually been doing okay lately, so I'm hoping that the bc I'm on is helping along with the anti-depressant. All that I know for sure though is that while that day was very bad, so far all the other days have been good. So that's a plus. I just hope that it stays that way. I'm lucky to have my fiancee to get me through the bad days, but i will definitely look into the midol PMS stuff. I'd never even heard of it before.




   
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Re: Why must it always come back? - April 4th 2011, 03:35 PM

I'm happy for you (: PM me if you ever need to chat. And yes we r thankful for our patient men aye?


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