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I can't do it. - April 3rd 2011, 04:05 AM

My best friend and love just ended our deep friendship. Because his girlfriend told him to. I'm hurt and I cut. My earlier post tells you my situation. I can barely move I'm in so much pain. My heart hurts and my chest hurts and my hands hurt and my thoughts are dark. I haven't smoked weed in a month but I feel like I have to now just to numb this and I can't get rid of these thoughts. I'm being weighed down by life.
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Re: I can't do it. - April 3rd 2011, 04:59 AM

cutting doesn't help. It never did for me.. I have been neglected by my own father and hate what i see in the mirror. I used to cut the word love into my arm but it only made me more ashamed. All I can tell you to do is pull everything together... stop the smoking, it doesn't make the pain leave it only fogs it for awhile. don't cut it only reminds you of everything. Ill tell you to do the same thing i do day in and day out...
smile and don't let anyone see it hurts, because one day the pain will hopefully have dulled to where you can live life. Thats all you can wish for.....
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Re: I can't do it. - April 3rd 2011, 05:19 AM

That sign-off from your friend is likely to be ephemeral; it won't be forever. You can and will be able to be friends again, but it will take time. Cross-gender relationships are hard for people to maintain when their current partner sees you as a threat.

Why would she, the girlfriend, see you in such a way? She must see you as so much more than herself. You are strong. You are amazing. Therefore she needs to have the guy cut off the contact so that you don't "steal" him, because of how powerful an individual you are. There is pride to be had in that. Remember this.

That aside, I would talk to someone about this. A counselor, doctor, friend, pastor, teacher, or parent. They can help support you in these trying times.

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