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Why d I feel like this? - April 14th 2011, 06:08 PM

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Since I have got taken out of my fathers care, I want nothing more then to just make myself as unattractive as possible, after being molested by many men over the years including my dad, I just want to stay away from everyone and make myself look as ugly as ever, I always feel down and sad, at random times I burst into tears. I want nothing more than to rid myself of this hell hole we call life, I would perfer to be 6 feet under than living the life I am living now.

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Re: Advice? - April 16th 2011, 05:21 AM

Hello Becky,
It is understandable that you feel this way after the multitude of horrific events that you have gone through. However, the way you looked probably wouldn't have made a difference. These were terrible sexually-crazed people, who only saw you as an object to take advantage of, your physical appearance mattered not to them. The good thing now is that they are out of your life for good. There would be no benefit to making yourself ugly, you would only be making yourself feel worse, you must try not to let them define who you are. It will take a good bit of time to emotionally recover from this, but brighter times lie ahead. A good idea I think would be to try to find a support group for others who also are trying to recover from substantial emotional traumas. Remember, you aren't alone, and we believe in you.
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