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Unhappy I feel like such a slut... :( - June 7th 2011, 04:01 AM

so...im 14 years old...not even in highschool yet...and i just had a HUGE pregnancy scare....i feel like such a slut even though ive only had sex with one guy my entire life...i feel like such a slut i hate myself right now because i know all of this could have been avoided if i had just kept my legs closed. he never ever pressured me into having sex...i could have easily said no...but i didnt...and now i hate myself for it...


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Re: I feel like such a slut... :( - June 7th 2011, 04:05 AM

You're not a slut, and you shouldn't hate yourself for it. We all make decisions in our life that we're not proud of. What's important is whether or not you take these decisions and use them as a lesson for yourself.

There's no need to dislike yourself for what you've done. If it's something you're not proud of, then use it to your advantage. Use it to make wiser decisions in the future.
   
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Re: I feel like such a slut... :( - June 7th 2011, 04:08 AM

your not a slut, you only did it with one guy who you were in a relationship with. that is very normal actually. I understand that you may feel like you made a bad choice, but now you can change how you act in the future. You can make better choices in the future and avoid further bad feelings. Just accept your past, learn from it, and move on


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Re: I feel like such a slut... :( - June 7th 2011, 05:23 PM

Everyone makes mistakes. It's part of being human. What makes these mistakes important is recognizing if and how we can learn from them. I don't think that anyone would qualify having sex with one person to be "slutty", so try to avoid thinking of yourself in such terms. You're better than that.

I think you're more mad at yourself for saying yes to him and having sex than you are about the idea of what other people will think of it. If you could get help from anyone, be it a friend, the school counselor, or anyone else you trust, I think that it would go a long way for you. You didn't do anything wrong, even if you feel like you did.


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