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whats wrong with me? - June 27th 2011, 11:11 PM

i need help. i have no desire o really live...i have lots of ambitions but part of me is content waisting away...i dont want to do anything or work for anything...i dont expect it to come to me. and i dont have a desire to die. its not being lazy its something inside and i feel like i need to get some help but i don't want to. it's awkward being truely happy or pleased. it doesn't feel fair or like i should be aloud to be happy i hate letting people see whats really me and how i feel it just feels so wrong


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Re: whats wrong with me? - June 28th 2011, 01:05 AM

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Re: whats wrong with me? - June 28th 2011, 12:40 PM

Hey there Jess.

I'm sorry you're going through this.

In my opinion you should try to talk to someone, preferably a parent or a school counselor, someone who can help you get back on track.

In the short term, try making some goals, for example, 'today I'm going to get x piece of work done.' Start small and build them up as you go. Have a plan for your day so you know what you're doing and how you can do it.

Good luck, and PM me if you need to talk. x


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Re: whats wrong with me? - June 28th 2011, 11:40 PM

my dad is part of the problem. he's not helpful. and i don't really want his help and school is out. and i have goals always had but i was feeling like i'd rather waste away today i'm a little better...but this hits me alot sometimes


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Re: whats wrong with me? - June 29th 2011, 08:20 AM

Have you got anything you're supposed to be doing now school is out? In my opinion this is the right time for relaxing.
If you really feel like you should be doing something you could look for a job. It would fill your time and earn you money, making it worthwhile.


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Re: whats wrong with me? - June 30th 2011, 10:44 AM

find something that is really important to you. try to find out your destiny the you were meant to do I was going through the same type of phase a year or so ago.
   
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Re: whats wrong with me? - June 30th 2011, 04:02 PM

Idle summers have always done that to me. I strongly recommend looking for something committed to do, like summer school or work/volunteer of some kind. There's really no substitute for it. A sense of responsibility is very important for self-motivation - without it, one can really only go so far - and two months is quite a long time.

It can also be a time to start a personal project - artistic, intellectual, whatever. Challenge yourself to read x number of books in a month. Learn a new skill or hobby. You can make a commitment to yourself - the challenge is to make sure that there are clearly defined goals and objectives, so as to not lose track.

Also, having lazy days are totally acceptable. We need to take care of ourselves, and a large part of that is giving negative mental states the space to just be - to a certain extent, that is. As long as we can still say, "today is a lazy day but tomorrow I'll get right back to it", it is okay.


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Re: whats wrong with me? - June 30th 2011, 06:36 PM

i feel like i hit a wall i tried all that i've done it, and something always gets in the way its so depressing


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It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.
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Re: whats wrong with me? - July 1st 2011, 08:20 AM

Time and effort won't make itself. If you want to do something, you have to get out there and make the time and put in the effort. Get a friend on your side to help you with a new project. Then you'll have the support to keep going.


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Re: whats wrong with me? - July 2nd 2011, 02:49 AM

I'd personally be happy to start on a project of some kind with you. I've been looking to make more constructive use of my time and energy as well. We can support each other - if you're interested!


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