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Unhappy Trying so hard. - July 14th 2011, 10:59 AM

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So I've been trying so hard to stay positive and to get better. But it's not. In fact it's getting worse. Every single feeling is killing me. I can't do it anymore. I just can't. I tell myself that there is hope for the future and that this pain is not forever. But that's not good enough for me. I tell myself that everything will be OK next year after I finish my traineeship, that I'll be able to hopefully start University after completing my traineeship and that I'll be going for my Provisional driving licence in a few weeks time. There are so many things for me on the horizon but none of these things are helping me to stay positive. I don't have anyone that I can trust to talk to about what's going on for me. This pain is making me insane; I feel like I want explode into a million pieces. That will be better then feeling what I'm feeling. I can't do this anymore. I feel like I have nothing to live for. All I think about is suicide. I know I need help but I don't know how to ask it for again.


   
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Re: Trying so hard. - July 14th 2011, 01:16 PM

i understand that you're going through a lot.

but remember that we're always here to support you too. and like an old wise man said, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. And rianna, you are awesome sauce and deserve to be happy. stay strong!

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Re: Trying so hard. - July 14th 2011, 03:00 PM

I know from personal experience that depression is a horrible thing to deal with. It's also a daily battle with yourself. However, you must understand that this problem can not be fixed overnight. It takes time and patience. You must give yourself that much. You also need to find someone you can talk to. We are always here for you in the support forums. However, you should definitely seek out a counselor. They are objective and they are strangers that you can begin to get to know and relate to. You also need to develop positive coping skills that help you get through your feelings. I keep a journal of my good and bad feelings. I write in it when I feel the need to. I begin with a good feeling and then talk about the bad ones. I also try to find my triggers. Knowing your trigger is so important. Once you know your trigger, then you can develop positive coping skills to address it.
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Re: Trying so hard. - July 14th 2011, 08:36 PM

You can do it; stay strong. Those things, once they come around, won't be as horrible as they appear right now. It's a gradual process. And if you really do need help then just ask impulsively. You can do it<3


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