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Unhappy help... - August 7th 2011, 05:24 AM

Please someone help...I can't do this anymore, i hate myself i hate my body, my personality,the way i act. And every time someone gets close i push them away because I'm afraid they might see the real me. The me that's hurting deep inside the me that can't handle being alonev.v.


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Re: help... - August 7th 2011, 01:06 PM

Hey there,

I'm sorry you feel like this! Nobody will ever want you to feel this way. I want you to know that pushing people away is only going to hurt you more. Suffering this alone will not help you. I think you should deffinitely consider talking to a family member or close, trusted friend about how you feel, because it may just help you feel a bit better because you wont be alone in this anymore. Being afraid of them seeing the 'real you' or the you that's hurting inside, is something you shouldn't be afraid of because people would rather help you than let you suffer alone. I'm sure plenty of people, especially friends and families, would rather know that you're not happy and be able to help you get to the happy stage of life where you wish to be, than not know at all.

Also, hating yourself and your body is not something worth taking the enegry to do. Everything about you, whether you like it or not, is something amazing because it makes you who you are. The person you are is amazing. This is because you are unique, you're different and you're the only one of you there will ever be. You are special because nobody on earth will ever be able to be as wonderful at being you, as you are. Be yourself. Enbrace the things that aren't maybe the best about you, and remember, they still make you, and they still make you wonderful. Everyone has flaws and everyone has things they dislike about themselves, but it doesn't mean that you should hate yourself over them, because you can never be the ideal 'perfect'. The only kind of perfect you can be, is perfect at being you, and perfect just the way you are. So stay strong, because you're worth it.

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Re: help... - August 8th 2011, 04:46 AM

Hi there,
Holly gave some great advice. What's not to love about yourself? No matter who or what you are, there's only one of you, and that's something to be damn proud of.
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