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Exclamation lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 07:04 AM

im depressed and the stress of a secret relationship is not helping me with my situation. i love the girl to death shes just way to scared to tell anyone. the secret causes stress between us and thats it. and the stress between us makes my depression tougher to deal with. but the relationship is not bad, actually quite good. i just dont know how to convnce her it will be ok and that no one
will care that we are together. also that it will make our relationship stronger. how should i convince her and also help myself

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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 07:57 AM

Keep a journal? It always helps me a little bit.
How come she is scared of what people will think of her being with a girl? It's nothing to be ashamed of, maybe you can help her embrace that and she can help you with your depression?
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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 08:09 AM

i tried already shes just so scared of the reactions our friends will have.
   
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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 08:24 AM

Have you came out to your friends?
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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 09:16 AM

yea i have been out to my friends for 2 yrs, the problem is that my girlfriends= is straight
   
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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 09:20 AM

She isn't if she's with you, she's just having problems being open about herself questioning her sexuality. I think If you guys could have an open relationship, it would help you out some stress wise.
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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 09:24 AM

ha! yea i told her that... she says she is straight because im the onlyt girl shed ever b with and that she doesnt care about tht imma girl cause she still only sees whats inside
   
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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 13th 2011, 09:49 AM

Yeah, you might be the only girl she has feelings for. I would sure hope so, but she isn't straight. I wish there was a way I could help.
I hope she comes out, and embraces her sexuality and that you feel better too!
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Re: lost at sea and drowning, going down fast - August 14th 2011, 02:57 AM

but she is straight. she likes guys...that is her problem
   
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