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Dreams and Wishes - August 23rd 2011, 04:28 AM

Had another dream about death... I was happy I was going to die right before it happened (car crashed into water) but I ended out living... I was happy because my parents were in the car and I don't want them to die. Although I don't want them to have to suffer or be in pain from my death. But when I woke I was afraid I'm going to die in a situation where my heart gets wasted (my sis has a bad heart and I want her to have mine), as well as all my other organs that could be donated to people who need them. It makes me want to die now, under my terms, in a way where all my organs, and whatever else they can use, will be used. Especially my heart for my sister...


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Re: Dreams and Wishes - August 23rd 2011, 09:28 AM

Hey beautiful.

I have something to say right away: I bet your sister would much rather have you, yourself, instead of just your heart. You have a destiny, you are not worthless. You are beautiful.

It's hard to feel this way, it's hard to want to be dead when you are Alive. Obviously, that's not the best feeling.

But you should see that life is a journey, and that eventually,
You will find a place where you can exist happily. It just may take a while.

Living is not selfish. Living is taking the hard route so that others won't be sad. Living isn't easy, but takes strength.

Dying is selfish... People will be upset. Funeral costs... Expensive. Your sister would cry too. Especially if you say it was for that reason. She would blame herself.

Hang in there, and remember to never give up.

Just rise above this
Kill them with your kindness
Ignorance is blindness
They're the ones that stand to lose

'Cause they don't even know you
All they see is SCARS
They don't see the ANGEL
Living in your heart
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Re: Dreams and Wishes - August 23rd 2011, 04:17 PM


I’m really sorry to hear how things are for you at the moment. Having dreams like that must be really disturbing for you and it can’t be nice for you to be having them. While I understand your desire to want to help your sister, you need to remember you’re important too. Your sister would be heartbroken if anything happened to you. If she knew she influenced your decision because you wanted her to have your heart she’d feel so guilty, it wouldn’t be a nice feeling for her.

Have you been able to indentify why you feel the way you do? If you can, you may be able to resolve the issue somehow If you wanted to give us a little bit more information we might be able to help a little bit better

That being said, if you ever need anyone, I’m here, okay? Take care <3

A dream is a wish that you make with your heart

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Re: Dreams and Wishes - August 24th 2011, 06:25 AM

Well i do want to die regardless of my sis. Ive been suicidal for like 3 years now. and i just think im wasting my life. if i give what i can to others then at least im not a complete waste. ugh idek


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